Child Care Answers - Blog

Signing Time Workshop

2012-01-24T15:58:00.000-05:00

Signing Time Workshop

With Rachel Coleman

Friday, April 27, 2012

6:30 – 8:00 p.m.

Indiana Convention Center, Hall H

100 S. Capitol Ave., Indianapolis

Don’t miss this rare opportunity to see Rachel Coleman, Emmy-nominated host of Signing Time!, live and in person. Rachel will use songs, signs and group interaction from the

Signing Time series to teach families and children the power that comes from learning how to communicate using American Sign Language (ASL). In addition, she will tell her inspiring story of being the mom of two children with special needs. Join her for a meet and greet after the show too!

Registration: $15.00 for Individual $25.00 for Family of 5 or less

To register, go to http://www.utsprokids.org/ For more information contact Janice at 317-472-5602 registration@utsprokids.org

Free Webinars

2012-01-24T08:20:00.000-05:00

IACCRR

Free Webinars!

We hope you and your staff take advantage of this FREE opportunity. The trainings are delivered via the internet- no need to leave your site. All topics are relevant to early childhood, and will help you meet Paths to QUALITY annual in service training hours. Topics will include, Universal Precautions, Early Childhood Careers, Disability Awareness, Physical Activities, Math, Social Studies, and more. More than 10 webinars to choose from each month. Webinar times are convenient to you. 1:30-2:30 p.m. EST

Get a full list of monthly trainings here, then call 1-800-299-1627 to register!

Poison Prevention Class

2012-01-23T09:18:00.000-05:00

• Do you teach injury prevention programs for preschool and/or elementary school children?
• Are you looking for a new safety topic?
• Would you like to promote poison safety in your own community?

If you answered “yes” - the Indiana Poison Center can help you teach poison safety.

Who? For people who teach injury prevention programs for preschool and elementary school children.
How long? 3 hours. Provides poison prevention background for the instructor, how to effectively teach
poison safety to children and how to get the safety message home to parents.
How much? The workshop is FREE
Where? Methodist Hospital, Indianapolis
When? Wednesday February 22nd from 12:00-3:00 p.m.

Registration is limited to 10 Please contact Barbara Cole to confirm that an opening is available.
(317) 962-9248 bcole@iuhealth.org

NASA Ignite! Training Mission

2012-01-23T09:15:00.001-05:00

NASA Ignite! Training Mission

Enrolling: Certified Teachers, Preservice

Teachers, and Afterschool Educators

When: March 17, 24, and April 28, 2012

Where: Marian University,Marian Hall Upper lobby (old Civic Theater area)
Time: 8:30-5:00
Topics:
Day 1, March 17 – Rocketry - rockets and discussion of expectations and responsibilities for the teachers (a "flight plan," so to speak)
Day 2, March 24– Astrobiology - life science (the body in space, NASA's search for other life in the universe)
Day 3, April 28- Space exploration (our near neighbors in the solar system and then moving beyond to comets, stars, and how we get there)

Cost: $75 (includes training, 3 lunches and teacher materials)

Seating is limited! Make checks payable to Marian University NASA Workshop

Commitment: Participants will commit to attending all 3 workshops and some additional training throughout the year facilitated by NASA educational consultants. Participants will be invited to teach hands-on activities at summer programs in the Indianapolis area. The Marian University Summer Learning Institute will provide a stipend for those who participate in summer teaching opportunities.

Reservation: Dr. Judy Bardonner, Director, Center for Community Learning,
Marian University; (317) 955-6545 jbardonner@marian.edu

Next Steps: Life After First Steps

2012-01-19T08:12:00.000-05:00

Don't Let Your Child's Transition to Preschool Get Messy!

Sometimes children may still need therapy after they have completed the First Steps Program. The next public option for children older than three years of age to receive therapy services is through the special education preschool program provided by every local school district.

Join us for the "Next Steps: Life After First Steps" free, informative meeting that will help you understand what services are provided by your local school district and the process to access these services. This event will also allow you to meet and greet available school representatives from local school districts in Hamilton, Hendricks, Johnson, Marion, Morgan, and Tipton Counties.

At this event, you will be able to:

Get your questions answered about Preschool Special Education Services
Learn about School Bus Services and see the type of bus your child could ride
Tour a Special Education Preschool
Witness a mock case conference
Gather resources from various programs and services
Participate in a "make it & take it," hands-on preschool activity

Date: February 8, 2012

Time: 5:30 pm

Location: Fishback Creek Public Academy

8301 West 86th Street

Indianapolis, IN 46278

YOU MUST RSVP TO Kathy at 472-6104 by 2-1-12

Hidden Sugar in Food Labels

2012-01-17T11:24:00.002-05:00

The Many Names of Sugar

Want to cut down on the sweet stuff? You have to find it first.
By Heather Lee

If you feel like your eating is out of control, one of the most important steps you can take is to reset your taste buds' sensitivity by avoiding flavor overload, says weight loss expert David Katz, MD, director of the Yale Prevention Research Center. That means cracking down on hidden sugar in foods that you don't even think of as sweet--such as pasta sauce or potato chips.

Unfortunately, sugar hides behind many different names on food labels. Here is a list of its aliases:

• sucrose
• fructose
• glucose
• dextrose
• galactose
• lactose
• maltose
• invert sugar
• raw sugar
• turbinado sugar
• brown sugar
• confectioner's sugar
• granulated sugar
• corn syrup
• high-fructose corn syrup
• honey
• maple syrup
• molasses

FREE Stewards of Children Training

2012-01-17T09:17:00.001-05:00

Join the Movement to End Child Sexual Abuse

Stewards of Children is a powerful sexual abuse prevention training program that educates adults to prevent, recognize, react responsibly, and take courageous action.

Visit: www.mccoyouth.org/Intervention/stewards-of-children.html or contact Shanna Martin at
shanna.martin@Mccoyouth.org or 317-921-1233 for more information about Stewards of Children trainings.
2012 Trainings:

• February 11, 9:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.
• February 21, 1-3:30 p.m.
• March 15, 10 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.
• April 3, 8:30-11 a.m.
• August 7, 1-3:30 p.m.
• November 13, 8:30-11 a.m.

How do you connect with Child Care Answers?

2012-01-09T09:42:00.000-05:00

Child Care Answers offers several ways to keep up with our trainings and community events.

Check out our Facebook page
Follow us on Twitter @childcareanswer
Subscribe to our Legislation Education Blog for up to date information about Legislation impacting youth.
Check out our website for the latest Training Calendar and to register for classes.

2012-01-04T14:21:00.000-05:00

Have You Considered a Career in Child Care?

A career in child care can be a very rewarding choice. As a licensed home provider you can make a difference in the lives of children as well as owning a business. Child Care Answers wants to help you get started by offering FREE training classes as well as assisting you with community resources and other classes to help you succeed as a child care provider.

Did you know that Johnson and Hendricks county has a strong need for more licensed child care providers? In 2011 Child Care Answers had 426 families in Johnson and Hendricks county searching for child care but only has 132 providers available in that area.

Child Care Answers Resource and Referral Agency is a local agency serving Hamilton, Hendricks, Johnson and Marion County. Child Care Answers offers FREE training for individuals interested in beginning a child care business. Those interested in starting up a licensed center, home or registered ministry can register to attend an orientation class through us or take the class online at http://www.iaccrr.org/portal/?#tabs-training. This class gives a general overview of child care in Indiana and resources in the community. Child Care Answers also offers classes to help in advertising your child care business and record keeping. The training calendar is published four times a year and includes upcoming classes offered by Child Care Answers and early childhood education classes in the community.

For licensed child care providers a mentoring program is available to help guide them as they advance levels in Paths to Quality, Indiana’s voluntary quality rating system for child care. Classes are also available to help with guidance and discipline, stress prevention for caregivers and Exploring the Foundation to Indiana Academic Standards.

A copy of Child Care Answers training calendar can be viewed online at http://www.childcareanswers.com/. Once there, click on the provider tab and then the “training” link on the right hand side.

Exciting Opportunity to Make Visuals

2012-01-03T08:17:00.000-05:00

Join our Inclusion Specialist, Tory Masters, for an exciting Make and Take It session on Saturday, January 7th. The session begins at 9:30 am and for an hour I will go through all the visual supports and how to use them with children, then for another hour or so, I will give you time to make those visuals. The cost is only $5 per person! Below is a list of what I will have available for you to make:

Tucker Turtle’s social story for handling frustration
A visual schedule (please bring photos of your children following your daily routine to use if you want to use them!)
Center Control
Stop Signs
Solutions Kit for problem solving
Emotional Check in

It will be a fun filled morning and we have limited seats. Once you register and payment and finalized, we will give you all the final details of the day! Feel free to register a friend and pass this information along to others! You must be completely registered and payment received by Thursday, January 5th!

New Year's Eve - Art Activity

2011-12-30T09:14:00.011-05:00

Water Bottle Noise Maker

Age: 8 and up
Parental supervision is recommended

What you'll need:
Empty plastic water bottle
Beans, coins, or other items to place inside
1 sheet white tissue paper
Scraps of tissue paper in various colors, cut into small squares
24” long strip of light blue crepe paper streamer
24” long strip of pink crepe paper streamer
White craft glue
Water
Scissors

How to make it:
Place a handful of beads or coins inside the clean, dry water bottle. Run some glue around the mouth of the bottle and replace the cap.
Make a mixture of 1/2 white craft glue and 1/2 water that will be enough to cover the bottle a few times over.
Tear white tissue paper into large chunks, approximately 4”x2”.
Paint a small section of the outside of the water bottle with the glue mixture. Place a torn piece of white tissue paper onto the glue mixture and paint over it with the glue mixture. Repeat this process, covering the entire bottle with 2-3 coats of white.
Apply small colorful squares of tissue paper randomly over the white tissue paper to resemble confetti.
Cut each strip of crepe paper streamer in half. Carefully tie one of the pieces around the neck of the bottle. Repeat with other lengths of crepe paper. Use scissors to cut each length to about 4” hanging length, and then cut upwards into thin strips. Use a couple pieces of the excess crepe paper you just cut off to twist around the neck of the bottle and glue in place. Allow to dry for several hours.

Have Fun ringing in the New Year!!!

A few family friendly events for New Years Eve- “Indianapolis Style”

2011-12-30T09:12:00.000-05:00

Countdown to Noon
Families are invited to participate in the excitement of an early countdown by celebrating the New Year with activities, music and a water clock countdown to noon. It's a cool event to bring in the New Year with the entire family.
10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Dec. 31, The Children's Museum, 3000 N. Meridian St., free with museum admission ($11.50- $16.50), www.childrensmuseum.org, (317) 334-3322.

Family New Year's Eve
Children and adults will enjoy games, crafts, magicians, face-painting, a stilt walker, clowns and live music by the Tides, an Indianapolis band. At 8 p.m., there will be a celebratory balloon drop, allowing the younger children to celebrate the New Year in style.
6 to 9 p.m. Dec. 31, Indiana State Museum, 650 W. Washington St., $11 non-member, $6 members, reservations recommended, www.indianamuseum.org, (317) 232-1637.

Spend the night at the Caribbean Cove Indoor Water Park at the Holiday Inn, Pyramids location- Enjoy the Holiday Inn, with over 50,000 feet of water activities, slides, areas for both older and younger children and game arcades. After the family has had its fill of water activities, enjoy eating in one of the hotel's many restaurants or order room service, rent a pay per view movie and settle in for a night away from home.
Location: 3850 DePauw Blvd. Indianapolis, IN 46260 Phone: 317-872-9790- Cost: Package deal is $349 plus tax for up to 5 people, includes a free, lavish breakfast buffet with unlimited refills (all you can eat), admission to the water park, kids' club activities till midnight, free party favors. Per person rate for a night of fun is about $65 plus tax. Not free, not cheap, but very, very fun! In addition to the free party favors, a conga line with refreshments starts at 11:30 pm.

Beef and Boards Christmas Yule A very family friendly show, this one captures the spirit of the season and includes a buffet meal as well. This is a musical variety show that the whole family will love, with a history of annual performances for over fifteen years. Catch it this year and plan to catch it next year as well. Location: 9301 Michigan Road, Indianapolis, IN 46260 ,Phone: 317: 872-9664 Cost: Tickets range from $32.50 to $52.50, depending on seating choices and location. Hours: 8 pm nightly.

Infants’ Acetaminophen Dosing

2011-12-28T10:06:00.000-05:00

Manufacturers are changing the amount (concentration) of acetaminophen in medicines for infants. These new

concentrations will have different dosing directions. During the transition, you may find both concentrations

on store shelves and in your home.

What you need to know:
• The medicine label for children under 2 years of age instructs you to call your doctor for dosing directions.

• Your doctor or pharmacist can give you the correct dosing instructions once they know the concentration of he acetaminophen in the product you are using.

How can I tell which concentration I have?

You will find the concentration for the medicine on the front of the medicine bottle, either 80mg/0.8mL (old product concentration) or 160mg/5mL (new product concentration).

Living in the New Normal: Helping Children Thrive in Good and Challenging Times

2011-12-21T15:56:00.000-05:00

You are invited to the Living In the New Normal: Helping Children Thrive In Good and

Challenging Times Practicum.

The Military Child Education Coalition (MCEC)™, a nonprofit
organization addressing the educational needs of children in military families, presents the training. This training is designed for Family Readiness Group leaders, first responders and other concerned adults to gain strategies and practical applications to increase resilience in military-connected children.
Living In the New Normal: Helping Children Thrive In Good and Challenging Times

Practicum

Date: March 9,2012
Registration and Breakfast: 8:00 am -8:30 am
Institute Training: 8:30 am -4:00 pm
Place:
JW Marriott
10 S West Street
Indianapolis, Indiana 46204
95% attendance is required to receive institute credit and course materials

No cost to participants. Funded by OSD/DA

For more information about LINN-P or this training, please contact Amanda Hulsey at 254-953-1923 or Amanda.Hulsey@militarychild.org. Please visit www.MilitaryChild.org, click the Upcoming Trainings tab to register.

And The Winner Is...

2011-12-19T19:51:00.002-05:00

Congratulations to the winners of the Paths to QUALITY contest that took place October 20th-December 15th. Providers who enrolled during this time were entered into a drawing to receive a gift card. The winners were:

Licensed Child Care Center Kids-X-Clusive Child Care Inc. received a $200 Lakeshore gift card

Licensed Child Care Home Numidia Hernandez of Grandma's Child Care received a $100 Visa gift card

Thank you for your commitment to quality child care and thank you becoming a part of the Paths to QUALITY system.

CDA: IS IT FOR ME?

2011-12-13T16:19:00.009-05:00

What Are the Steps to Obtaining my CDA?

Determine what training route and means is right for you

Successfully complete the CDA training

Request to take and successfully pass the CDA assessment to earn the CDA credential from the Council for Professional Recognition (http://www.cdacouncil.org/ )

Renew the CDA as required by the Council for Professional Recognition

What are my CDA OPTIONS?
While there are lots of places to get CDA training, the training is delivered in three basic ways: through a college or university; through a local approved organization or agency; and online. Some options to earn a CDA include…

Formal CDA (for college credits)--You can contact Ivy Tech (Rose- 921-4403); there are TEACH (356-6884) scholarship dollars available; the student pay 10% and TEACH pays 90% if they qualify.

Non-Formal CDA (120 clock hours with no college credits as you go through the process)
Online: You can go to http://www.blogger.com/www.childcareanswers.com ; click on the link across the top that says Provider, then on the CDA link on the right side - the cost is $299 payable prior to starting the class (no scholarships available), students are able to work at their own rate and are able to begin the process at any time.
Care Courses online CDA classes http://www.carecoures.com/
120 clock hour class: Our CDA classes meet one night a week (3 hours) and 1 Saturday a month (6 hours). If you qualify for a scholarship the cost is $100; without a scholarship the cost is $1196

Child Care Answers has classes starting in January, however you must register now and attend a CDA orientation class... contact Vanessa at 317 636-5727, ext. 241 or vanessaf@childcareanswers.com

Christmas Help

2011-12-01T15:02:00.002-05:00

Forest Manor
(317) 545-1204

Community School
(317) 638-4673

United Way
(317) 921-1208

George Washington High School
No phone number given.
2215 West Washington 46222-Christmas Party Dec 17 at 10:00 am

Holiday Helpers

2011-12-01T14:06:00.004-05:00

Freezer Cooking with Slow Cooker Recipes

Basically, all you do is chop vegetables and assemble ingredients.
You dump the veggies into the gallon ziploc bags, then add the meat, then add the spices.

To cook, take out of freezer and set on counter for about 30 minutes, then dump contents of bag into slow cooker. Cook on high for 4 hours, or low for 8 hours.

Here are a couple of sample recipes:

Goulash

2cups chopped onions2.5 cups coarsely chopped green sweet peppers4 large beets, peeled and diced2 cups of carrots3 cloves garlic, minced3 pounds beef stew meat, cut into one inch cubes1 6-ounce can tomato paste4 teaspoons Hungarian paprika or regular paprika (I used regular)1/4 teaspoon ground black pepper4 cups hot cooked noodles1/2 dairy sour cream

Beef Roast with Root Vegetables
Ingredients
1/2 cup chopped onion
2 large sweet potatoes, cut into 2-inch pieces
2 parsnips, peeled and chopped
1 celery root (celeriac), peeled and chopped
1 (5-pound) boneless beef roast, trimmed of fat
Salt and ground black pepper
3 tablespoons all-purpose flour
1 (14-ounce) can diced tomatoes
1/3 cup maple syrup
2 teaspoons chili powder
1 teaspoon ground cumin
1 teaspoon garlic powder
1 teaspoon onion powder

Prep Time Savers:
Seasoned Ground Beef
Shredded Chicken
Shredded Pork
Shredded Beef
Chopped Bell Peppers
Chopped Onions
Freezer Basil (Yay!!)
Crockpot Veggie Dump (for roasts and whole chickens)

2011-12-01T12:08:00.000-05:00

Cinnamon Applesauce Ornaments:

The rich color and wonderful scent of these cinnamon applesauce ornaments make them a lovely addition to your Christmas decor. Try hanging a few from a window sill, making the ribbons of different lengths so that the ornaments will hang at different levels, or simply add them to your Christmas tree.

Craft Supplies:Cookie Cutters, Ribbon,Toothpick, Fabric paint, Apple sauce, Cinnamon, Craft glue

Craft Project Instructions:Mix equal amounts of apple sauce and cinnamon and add 1 teaspoon of craft glue for every cup of applesauce. Have extra cinnamon on hand, you want a dough like texture.

Mix all the ingredients until you have a firm but wet dough. If you like you can substitute small amounts of cinnamon for a little nutmeg or ground cloves. Roll out your dough to at least 1/4 inch thickness (less than this will make your ornaments a little weak and they break easily) and cut shapes with cookie cutters. With a toothpick, poke a hole at the top of each ornament that is large enough for a ribbon to be pulled through. Place ornaments on a cooling rack or tray to dry completely. Depending on how large your ornaments are, drying could take a couple of days; it's best not to touch your ornaments during this time. You can also dry the ornaments in a 250 degree oven for a couple of hours. Once your ornaments are dry and if there are a few rough edges, you can easily remove the roughness with a little fine sandpaper. Sand your ornaments gently, as it doesn't take much to remove the little edges. Tie a ribbon through the hole and, if you like, you can paint these ornaments or add a little glitter. This is a great activity to do with children. From start to finish children will enjoy this creative outlet. These ornaments are easily saved, simply wrapped them in tissue paper and put in a box. I have some from 15 years ago, they still have a scent.

Magnetic Painting Activity

2011-12-01T11:29:00.003-05:00

Magnetic Painting Activity-
http://playathomemom3.blogspot.com

This looks like a fun activity for children of all ages! With just paint, magnetic wand, magnetic balls and a clear surface you have a creative outlet for children.This activity could be modified to fit your space and the individual needs of the child. If the child/children want to save their artwork, then place paper directly over the artwork and quickly remove the paper.
Happy painting!

Easy ball pit

2011-11-29T14:07:00.003-05:00

Easy steps to turning a pack-n-play into a ball pit

1. Remove any moblie and bassinet from your pack-n-play

2.Add a few dozen fun balls

3. Insert child!

It is just that easy!

(I found a couple of resources for the balls. Amazon, 100 balls for $11.95, Wal-Mart 100 balls for $16.95)

Turn An Old Crib Into A Work Bench

2011-11-29T12:55:00.003-05:00

When your baby outgrows clothes and furniture, sometimes it's hard to find a way to repurpose it. There's always the option of giving it away or donating it. Here is an amazing idea I found on Pinterest on a repurpose for a crib. Now that the new standards for cribs are out, there are a lot of cribs that are no longer considered safe. So it is time to get creative with our old cribs. First the crib had a removable side door so it was easily removed. then use thick sheets of MDF to secure the mattress base and paint it with fun chalkboard paint. Using stick on hooks from a local discount store, help create simple and amble storage space to hang scissors, paper, pencils-you name it!

http://www.ohdeedoh.com/ohdeeoh/turn-an-old-crib-into-a-work-bench-a-little-learning-for-two-155012

Children can build from floor to ceiling in this LEGO-covered room

2011-11-29T11:58:00.002-05:00

How cool is this! This could be adapted for child care settings. You could do half walls all around the room, or just in one area. This is a great way for children to save their LEGO projects.

Play is the building block of childhood learning, and this romper room, collaboratively designed by Lena Seow, Vrinda Khanna and Suzan Wines of I-Beam Designs. LEGO boards cover a wall of the room, from floor to ceiling. "Children can build with or against gravity," says Wines, adding that the child's ability to impact the basic architecture of the play area by building on the walls is a large part of the appeal. Everything the child build becomes an integral part of the play-space architecture until a new construction is made.

For older children who might not enjoy primary-colored LEGOS walls but still want this wall, spay paint the LEGO and the wall to the desired colors.

Turn something old, into something new

2011-11-29T11:46:00.002-05:00

How many times have you tossed something like this out, or maybe you have past one up that has been thrown out. With some elbow grease and a few modifications you can turn this tired entertainment center into something fabulous. This could be for your own children or in a child care setting.

Center Director Inclusion Training

2011-11-22T14:29:00.000-05:00

Are you a new center director? If you haven’t taken the required Center Director Inclusion Training, you need to get scheduled to attend. It’s coming to Noblesville January 24th and 25th. Please call Rene Kinder with IACCRR at 1-800-299-1627 to get registered

Riley Child Development Center Training Opportunities

2011-11-15T11:27:00.000-05:00

Registration is now open for our two December Training Opportunities, seating is limited register today!

Mental Health Diagnosis in Early Childhood
Presented by: Angela Tomlin, PhD, HSPP and Lynne Sturm, PhD, HSPP
Friday, Dec 2nd 9:00am - 12:00pm

Appreciation for the level of emotional and behavioral concerns that can occur in very young children has been growing in recent years. This presentation will review current thinking about the scope and range of these issues. Participants will discuss the both DC 0-3R and DSM diagnostic categories that can be used to describe the behaviors of young children. Important differences between diagnosis in early childhood and older children will be presented, with a focus on the need to consider development and relationship factors. A brief discussion of appropriate assessment methods will be included.

Understanding the Funding Maze
Presented by: Jennifer Akers
Friday, Dec 2nd 1:00pm - 4:00pm

The confusing mix of health care expenses and financing options can be frustrating and overwhelming for both families and providers alike. This workshop will help explain some of Indiana’s public and private funding resources for Indiana families of children and youth with special health care needs (CYSHCN) and disabilities. Topics to be covered will include: What programs are available; Who qualifies for them; How to apply; What to expect; and How to stay up-to-date about the programs. Some of the programs covered will include: Private insurance, Medicaid, Medicaid Disability, Medicaid Waivers, Children’s Special Health Care Services, SSI, First Steps and Head Start.

Registration Fees: $50 for each session or $80 for both. Each training session has 60 spaces available. Please Contact Rylin Rodgers ryrodger@iupui.edu with any questions.

Webinars from Redleaf Press

2011-11-14T11:12:00.002-05:00

Join your favorite Redleaf Press authors and knowledgeable early childhood professionals for webinars designed with you in mind. Watch from the comfort of your own computer as you gather tips, learn new ideas, and take part in conversations about important - and useful - topics in early childhood. Affordable webinars covering a variety of subjects are offered each week, so check the calendar for complete listings. For more information go to the Redleaf website at http://www.redleafpress.org/webinars.aspx.

Have a Stress Free Holiday with Teenagers

2011-11-08T11:54:00.001-05:00

By Cindy Springsteen and Lori Lite

As the Christmas and Hanukkah seasons are approaching us quickly, we are faced with our teenagers being home for the holidays. This is a very exciting time for teenagers, as the stresses of homework and tests will be put aside for a short time. So what will they do with their time? This is something that should be discussed ahead of time and put into perspective. Parents will not want to spend the next two weeks arguing with their teenager, so if all the expectations are set forth ahead of time, there will be less chance of conflict and less stress during the vacation.

Should there be any family obligations such as visiting with relatives and special meals it is important to not wait until that day to spring this on your teen. They should be made aware of plans made; this is not to say that they have any say in what plans were made. This will just prevent arguments when they are told they must attend something with you when they would prefer to be with their friends.

Holidays with Teenagers Tips:

1.Let your teen invite a close friend to help decorate the tree or participate in lighting the menorah one evening. Friends are a great buffer and teens usually behave better in front of them.
2.Let your teen know ahead of time when it would be appropriate to leave after a special meal or visit with relatives. This is a great trade off for a conversational and present teen.

3.Go for quality not quantity family time. Let your teen know that if they spend 3 pleasant hours engaging with the family fun, they can then leave to spend 3 hours at a friend’s house or bring a friend over.

4.Try to plan family events in the afternoon so teens can sleep in. Teens are cranky if they are up early. Work with their strengths.

5.Give your teen a responsibility to pull them into the family commitment and holiday dynamics. Assign them cooking the potato latkes or decorating the mailbox. Let them do it their way and resist the urge to criticize or correct.

6.If there are younger siblings in the family let your teen bring them to the movies or drop them off at a store to pick out a present for mom or dad. This is relaxing and fosters a bond between siblings. This helps teens realize they are a role model to their younger brother or sister.

Holiday time is a wonderful time of year to spend time with your family and friends. Parents will finally get to relax after the hustle and bustle of the last month. Teenagers on the other hand are not looking to sit and relax. Try to remember what life was like when you were a teen. The stresses on the teens today are much greater and they look forward to being with their friends. Make sure to allow for friend time, family fun, and lots of sleeping in.

Holiday downtime is an excellent time to introduce your teen to relaxation techniques. Indigo Teen Dreams and Indigo Dreams: Teen Relaxation Music are CDs made specifically for teenagers to learn to manage stress, anxiety, and anger while increasing self-esteem.

Cynthia Springsteen is a published writer. She has been writing since she was in her teens. Most recently she was selected out of hundreds to write poetry for a screenplay, which is being filmed January 2011 in Los Angeles. She has spent the last couple of years researching and writing about parenting teenagers for various publications, plus her own personal experiences raising two teenagers. Follow on Twitter and FaceBook .

Stress Free Kids founder Lori Lite has created a line of books and CDs designed to help children, teens, and adults decrease stress, anxiety, and anger. Ms. Lite’s books, CDs, and lesson plans are considered a resource for parents, psychologists, therapists, child life specialists, teachers, and yoga instructors. Lori is a certified children’s meditation facilitator and Sears’ Manage My Life parenting expert. For more information visit Stress Free Kids and for daily advice follow Lori on Twitter and Face Book .

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Joy to Your World: Have a Stress-Free Holiday

2011-11-08T11:45:00.002-05:00

Joy to Your World: Have a Stress-Free Holiday
Have a truly happy holiday with these family, money and health tips.

By Alina Larson

Mom of three Anita Berding thought past Christmases were hectic. A typical December weekend might involve the office holiday party; costume fittings for the kids' pageants; buying presents for the Brownie troop gift swap, teachers and the neighbors' party; a quick workout; making photo Christmas cards; ice skating with extended family and an awkward conversation with her brother-in-law. This year Anita remarried, adding two stepsons to her family and a host of new challenges to her holidays. "I'm exhausted just thinking about it!" she says.

Which is how many of us feel when we flip the calendar to November and see the Thanksgiving to New Year's marathon is about to begin. Whether you're worried about travel, weight gain, socializing, family tension, gift-buying or all of the above, we've got the stress-busters to make your holidays fun again!

Travel
So Aunt Sally and Uncle Steve have invited the whole clan to Des Moines. Don't end up stranded in Denver. With an estimated 60 million travelers hitting the skies and roads this season, you'll need a little planning to get anywhere without getting stressed.

Try to book as far in advance as you can. If it's possible to arrive or depart on the big days (Thanksgiving or Christmas) you'll not only pay less, you'll have less of a mob to wade through.

Pack carefully. To check up on the latest security restrictions visit tsa.gov. Leave gift-wrapping for your destination. Weigh your luggage beforehand if it seems heavy (check your airline's website for specific rules). Leave room in your carry-on for a good book, your cell phone and its charger. They'll come in handy in case of a delay or a cancellation.

Thanksgiving Preplanned - How to Have a Stress Free Holiday

2011-11-08T11:30:00.003-05:00

Early November

As a die-hard foodie, my ulitmate holiday is of course Thanksgiving. I wait for this day for 364 days, and the moment it's over I begin running ideas through the back of my head for the next one.

I know. It's not quite healthy. On the other hand, I've hosted well over 20+ Thanksgiving Dinners, and over the years served from 6-45 people. I've learned a few things from all those dinners, and I realized that I have some info that might help make everything as fun and stress free for you as it is at my house. It all comes down to planning, and thinking through things ahead of time. Nothing I make is difficult or very exotic, and because I serve so many, it's a very casual experience at my house. But it does take a little organization, and this is the time to start.
We're currently in the first week of November, and this is when it starts. Don't worry - this is the fun part. We're going to make a plan!

1.You've got several weeks to go, so you have plenty of time to make all kinds of things happen. This is when you do your brainstorming. You need to figure out now how many guests will be coming, who they are, what they're ages are, and what you're going to feed them.

2.Easy enough. It makes a difference if more than half your guest list is under the age of twelve - or if all of them are in the 40+ crowd. Adults approach a sherried cream soup with a far different attitude than children do. And the more guests you have, the more sides and deserts you may want to think about adding.

3.Figure out now if there are dishes that absolutely must appear on the table. Turkey is pretty much a given, of course. Or Tofurkey. Or baked ham. Whatever is traditiona at your house. At my house at least half the menu is set in stone - there are dishes that just have to be there, or it won't equal Thanksgiving for someone. For my brother it's my grandmother's sweet potatoes. For my oldest it's Apple Cranberry Pie. Once you know if there are required dishes, you may find most of your menu planning done for you.

4.Figure out the rest of your menu. There are awesome sites out there that offer sample menus if you're struggling. Epicurious, Food Network and AllRecipes have great choices. I will say, now is not really the time to experiment with new dishes. In the very least, make a new recipe in the next week or two to decide if you like it. Don't try to pop it out new on Thanksgiving Day. That asks for trouble.

5.Once you've got your menu, make a quick check for any unusual or ethnic ingredients that you may need to find. This is especially true for fresh, kosher, organic or free range turkeys. You want to go ahead and place your order now. Go ahead and round up anything else, either by a trip to ethnic or gourmet stores or by working the internet. I found my ducks last night - Turducken is a must at my house, and duck is hard to find here, so I've already tracked them down for this year. Fresh turkeys especially can become hard to find, even a couple weeks ahead of the holiday, so get yours ordered.

6.Ok - you've got a guest list, and a menu. Now figure out how you're going to serve. Buffet? Sit down? I've done sit-down formal dinners multiple times, and love them. But as our extended family has grown and the guest list has exploded, I find it much easier to handle a buffet for 40, than to try to find that much matching silver and china. Take your menu and match it to your serving pieces and dinnerware. Check off that you have a way to handle each dish - this step is more important than you realize. Do it now, so you'll know where Granny's turkey platter is, and if the crystal bowl is large enough for beans. It'll save you untold headaches when it's time to serve.

7.Now - compare the guest list to the menu. If you want, call in the favors. Don't have a problem at all calling each adult or family on your list and requesting them to bring one item. Not a baker? Get your sister to bring pie. Or have someone bring fresh bakery breads. Because I'm insane and like to do it all myself, I have guests bring the makings for cocktails. By the second round no one really sees any of the flaws in my food anymore so that's a winner strategy.

8.Ok - put your feet up for a while. You've maybe spent about an hour with pencil and paper, and I hope you had a pice of pie while you made notes. Take a break and come back in a few days once you're ideas have perked. K? Ok.

Going Buffet

If you're serving more than a few people, seriously consider a buffet. I love formal meals - I think they are important for special occasisons. But there is a point where it becomes an end in itself. For Thanksgiving, don't forget that anything that leds your guests relax, interact and enjoy themselves is a great thing.

Few of us have formal silver and crystal to serve more than 12 at most anyway. So consider other options. If you call early, there are some lovely items available at rental supply houses. A variety of styles, from casual to formal can be rented relatively inexpensively. Or even further - take an online shopping trip for plastic or disposable options. There are some really pretty ones out there - a far cry above the kind of paper plates you'd pass out a picnic. Some can be dressed up quite a bit.
And think about working in rustic elegance. At my house this year I'm covering tables with heavy brown butcher paper. Silverware and napkins will be bundled with raffia and berries. Menus and place cards will be printed with autumn colors, and I'm using gold and burgundy to highlight everything. My centerpieces will be a combination of things the children have made, and "arrangements" of apples, squash, pumpkin and elements from my yard. It's a great combination of elegant and casual, incredibly inexpensive, the children will be comfy, and the cleanup will be minimized. Good deal in my opinion!

Second week of November

All righty - time to sit back down for a few minutes with the notes you made. You're going to make your master shopping lists, and there will be several different ones.

1.Break out your menu and recipes. Starting at the top write down every single ingredient AND piece of cooking equipment that you're going to need. If you want you can break it down into separate lists now, but I do through and just make one master list at this point. For ingredients that appear in more than one recipe, make a tick mark next to it each time it appears - such as butter. That way if you'll need three pounds you won't find you only picked up one pound.

2.Do the same with the cooking equipment. Multiple dishes will need saucepans or stockpots, but since some can be done ahead, you won't need more than one. On the other hand if you'll need six casserole dishes and only have two, now is when you need to know.
3.Now take your master list and divide it into four lists. One is for staples.
One is for perishables, one is for semi-perishables and one is for equipment.

4.Go through your pantry and fridge and cross off whatever you already have and won't need to purchase again. Now if your pumpkin pie spice or poultry seasoning has been sitting there since last year - ditch it and buy fresh. Do some organization on your cupboards and freezer now, and you'll save yourself lots of headache in another couple weeks.

5.Decide now too if you get to splurge a little on anything. Even if doing a buffet, you'll want to check linen and napkins, glassware and serving pieces. Anything you don't have, see if you can borrow first. Call your sister back and ask if she can bring highball glasses with that pie. Ask your mama if you can use her pretty tablecloth. Extra chairs or a card table? Find it now. But however you do it, do it now. Not only will it give you time to have things cleaned and pressed, you'll get to borrow before someone else does, or get to shop while selection is still high. Start calling those in now or start the shopping.

6.Make one final walk through of your menu. Decide now what can be made ahead of time, and how far in advance it can be made. A surprising number of things can be made now and frozen (see why you cleaned our your freezer?). This is the time to start making pie dough, bread and stock. And since many frozen turkeys go on sale in late October to Early November, this is when I buy a couple to make stock. The giblets from the 'stock' turkeys can be frozen as well for later use. This really helps with some of the messier or more time consuming processes - get them out of the way.

7.Go Shopping! You're going to start your first shopping trip now. This is when you're going to go get absolutley everything on your non-perishables and equipment lists. If you want to go a step further, check coupon circulars and sale flyers and make that part of your planning. Many manufacturers and grocery stores begin running sales on "Thanksgiving" staples - items used in baking especially. Flour, sugar, spices, condensed milk and canned sweet potatoes and pumpkin can often be found at deep discounts. Stock up.

You've got about two weeks to go, and you're already way ahead of the game. But now it kinda kicks up a bit.

1.Any of the cook-ahead items on your list that can be done now should be done and stashed.

2.Start doing any of the major cleaning you want out of the way. Don't go crazy, but it's a good time to get some stuff out of the way. Make sure you've got your equipment, non-perishables, and linens, tables, chairs and serving pieces on hand, or have arrangements to get them soon. You can also have time to check for problems (broken chair legs can knock Aunt Martha in the floor) now, before there's an issue.

3.This is a great time to take care of extra little touches you may want to use. Place cards, menus, table decorations - all of these things can be done now. Get the kiddos involved with this - they are so proud when their projects end up as centerpieces! I intend to have my daugter write on our butcher paper table cloths with a metallic gold marker - copying quotes about food and family.

4.Make a final run through on your fridge, freezer and cupboards. I know I've said this earlier - but this might be one of the better things you can do. Not only will you have nice, open, organized spaces to make it easiest to find what you need, you'll also have plenty of stash space for leftovers for the big day after.

5.Speaking of leftovers, if you don't already have enough storage containers, get some. You'll thank me.

Getting the kids in it!

If you have kids (I have lots!), get them involved in all stages. Ask about their favorite dishes, have them write out any memories they have of previous years, have each jot down why they are thankful and read their notes as part of grace before the meal.
There are acres of great Thanksgiving Day craft ideas out there. Have them make the table decorations - or make napkin rings or place cards. Get them in the kitchen with you at all stages. Show them how to make bread, or pie dough, or start sharing your mother's garlic mashed potato recipe. This is all about building tradition and memories - don't miss the chance to maximize that!

The Week Before Thanksgiving
Week Before:

1.Pull out your lists again. Double check your guests, and remind anyone that you've delegated to bring something that they have a job to do.

2.Your perishables list and your equipment list should be checked off - remember you did that last week. You've got two lists left - one for semi-perishabes and one for perishables. Now is when you go shopping for the non-perishables. By these I mean things like dairy products - most have a shelf life of at least two-three weeks, and often can get scarce the few days before Thanksgiving itself. So look for butter, cream or half and half, root vegetables such as potatoes, sweet potatoes and turnips, and anything else that can be obtained with a week to go and no damage to shelf life. If you're using a frozen turkey, go ahead and grab that now if you have room in your freezer to store it a couple days

Monday and Tuesday:

1.If you start with a frozen bird, now's the time to get it defrosted. The best way to do this is to allow it to defrost in the refrigerator. You'll need 24 hours for each five pounds of bird. So a ten pound bird needs two days. If you have a big monster bird, you'll want him in the fridge no later than Saturday.

2.Other than any fresh seafood or if you've arranged for a fresh turkey, this is your final shopping trip. Go ahead and pull out that perishables list, and make your last trip to the stores.

3.Go ahead and do any prep work you can. If you know that you'll need a total of 6 cups of chopped onions, get it out of the way now. Do them all at once and you'll further ease prep time. Go ahead and wash or prepare any other produce you have.

4.Start defrosting. By Tuesday you can pull out any pie or bread dough that you've already made and frozen and stash it in the fridge. It'll be ready by the time you're ready to cook.

5.By Tuesday, pick up your turkey if it's fresh. If for some reason there was a problem with it or if you got caught without a fresh one, you've still got time to work with a frozen bird, but time is getting short, so take care of this early.

6.If you haven't made your stocks already, now is the time to do it. I tend to start mine early and freeze them, since I tend to go through gallons of stock. An extra turkey or two early in the month means less work now. But homemade stocks are simple, they can sit on the stove and perk for hours while you do other things, so if you haven't done this already, knock it out now.

Wednesday:

1.Kick it up! Today's the day you can knock out all kinds of things, so that when your guests arrive, you can actually enjoy both them and the meal!

2.Go ahead and make any pies you want. Custard pies like pumpkin or sweet potato will need to be chilled, but fruit pies can be covered and stored at room temperature.

3.Lots of side dishes, including soups, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, and casseroles can be made the day before. Get them either ready to microwave, or get casseroles ready to pop into the oven to heat through.

4.Make sure any salad greens are clean, washed and dried and stored in plastic bags. Homemade croutons, bacon and hardboiled eggs can be prepped and chopped and stored alongside - although don't toss the salad until last minute. Toppings get mushy and the greens will wilt.

5.Assemble the aspects of your dressing.

6.Start your turkey in the brine. Yes - you should brine! If you don't know how or why, check out How to Brine a Turkey.

7.Go ahead and get all your tables, decorations and plateware out and ready to go. Actually at my house, I set things out, but because some of my children are still pretty little and I have a naughty cat that I can't keep off tables, I don't actually finish setting the table until the last minute. But I do get all of it ready to go.

8.Wednesday night fix yourself a nice adult beverage, put your feet up and relax. You've prepped well, and the following day will be fun! Get a good night's sleep and get ready to enjoy yourself!

9.Give yourself a cooking schedule. Check over your recipes and cooking times, and organize them backwards from when you want to serve. At my house I don't serve until supper time -usually dinner is at 7:00 PM. So not only do I not get up at the crack of dawn to start the turkey, I have lots of extra time on the day itself. But having a schedule means I know that if I want to serve at 7, and the turkey needs 3 hours in the oven, plus resting and carving time, then I need it in the oven at 3:00 PM. Do this with each of your dishes, and you'll also see where you may have potential oven conflicts.

Drinks

Drinks are one thing I tend to forget. I have no idea why, but it seems everytime I entertain I find myself scrambling to make ice tea last minute, then end up serving my guests tea with the ice all melted because it was too warm.
So a couple of years ago I designated a bartender. By that I meant a buddy who was responsible for all of the wine and the mixed drink I was serving, but who also had non-alcoholic drink duty. I made it his job to make sure all drinks were ready to go on time, including the iced tea, soft drinks and punch. I also handed over to him ice-duty, wine opening, and the job of making sure that that part of the table was ready with appropriate stemware. I love it! It seemed like a simple thing, but it made a LOAD of difference, and was one more thing I didn't have to worry about.

Thanksgiving Day!

Woo hoo! I love Thanksgiving Day! Here's how I make it fun.
1.Have any truely helpful guests come early. If you have one that's handy in the kitchen, have them come well before dinner to hang out and help prep.

2.Stay on top of dishes. I constantly tell my kids that "a good chef is a clean chef". This is especially true today, when you'll be generating tons of dishes. Got someone awesome to help? Ask if you can designate them first round dishwasher - meaning they don't help afterwards if they'll help you keep it all clean ahead of time.

3.Go ahead and finish all your other prep work and dishes. You're close enough now that you can put together all of your dishes, even if they have to wait a bit for oven or stovetop time.

4.Make yourself a 'gravy prep' plate. Put all the ingredients you'll be using in the gravy in one little spot, so that as soon as the bird comes out and begins its rest, you'll be able to knock out the gravy in no time. Do the same with any other delicate dishes that need last minute work. You may not be able to cook or assemble the dish until immediately before serving, but you won't be searching frantically for an ingredient to make it work either.

5.Finish setting the table. I love turning this over to my daughter, who is a budding artist and thinks it's a fun thing to do. Or if you have an artistic friend, let him do it!

6.Get the coffee and teapots ready so you'll only have to hit the button to have fresh coffee when it's time to serve desert. Measure out any whipping cream you'll be using last minute and stash it in the coldest part of the fridge, in the mixing bowl with the whisk. It'll go together faster if all the elements are cold anyway.

Guess what? You're done! You did it! And better than anything - you eliminated most of the stressful parts. Remember, plan ahead, make your lists, designate where you can, shop early, get prep out of the way and you've just rocked out a terrific holiday!

Congratulations!

Online Early Childhood Director's Management Training

2011-11-07T13:54:00.000-05:00

Get the management training you need to support

your program from your own desk in your own office!

You may register for one or all four modules.

· Each module is 4 weeks long.

· Each week includes one hour of online time together (webinar presentation and discussion).

· There is a Pre and Post Assignment for each webinar, 1 hour each.

· Each module totals 12 training hours.

· All four modules (16 weeks) total 48 training hours.

· Registration cost includes training materials.

· Full series registration includes a copy of the Program Administration Scale.

· Completion of full series has a CEU option for a small additional fee.

2012 Dates/Webinar Schedule (4 wks): Module:

January 24-February 14, Tues. 1-2pm Focus on Business Operations

Policies and Procedures, Business Practices, Marketing and Disaster Preparedness

February 21-March 13, Tues. 1-2pm Focus on Staff

Professional Development Plans, Effective Supervision, Technology Assessment, and Human Resource Management

March 27-April 17, Tues. 1-2pm Focus on Children

Advocating for Play, Best Classroom Practices, Curriculum Goals/ Lesson Planning, and Creating a Welcoming Culture

April 24-May 15, Tues. 1-2pm Focus on Leadership

Partners with Families, Leadership and Management, Building Better Boards, and Strategic Planning

Cost: $15 per Module or $50.00 for the Full Series

*Must have a high speed internet connection to participate.

REGISTRATION DEADLINE DECEMBER 15, 2011

TO REGISTER:

Contact Traci Marshall,

Indiana Association for Child Care Resource and Referral

317.924.5202 toll free 1.800.299.1627 ext. 230

OR tmarshall@iaccrr.org

New Training Opportunity for Licensed Child Cares

2011-11-02T11:05:00.000-04:00

The Penn State Extension Better Kid Care program has been providing distance-delivered professional development to early childhood practitioners for more than 20 years. Better Kid Care is now offering a new on demand system for online learning. Lessons are completed with a short assessment following each lesson. Participants must register and pay a $5.00 fee per lesson to receive professional development credits. After payment and successful completion of the lesson assessment, participants will be able to print a certificate of completion and/ or have it sent to their email address.

Licensed child care providers in Marion, Hamilton, Johnson, Lake and Allen counties may complete the lessons at no cost, as part of a Department of Defense funded project.

To access the Better Kid Care On Demand lessons, visit http://extension.psu.edu/cyttap. Click on the Distance Education button, then select the On Demand distance education option. Participants must have a credit card and an email address to access the On Demand Better Kid Care distance education lessons. There are 50 professional development lessons available (1 hr. and 2 hr.) but check back frequently as new lessons are being added monthly.

For more information visit: http://extension.psu.edu/cyttap

Behavior Conference

2011-10-31T10:19:00.000-04:00

UTS would like to announce its newest conference Understanding Behavior Difficulties in Young Children: Practical Strategies for Early Intervention Providers presented by Heike Minnich, PsyD, HSPP, IMH-E ® (IV). Dr. Minnich is a clinical psychologist and Assistant Professor of Clinical Pediatrics in the Division of Developmental Pediatrics at IU School of Medicine. She holds an endorsement in Infant Mental Health at the Mentorship level. Dr. Minnich will address the different perspectives of behavior then lead a group discussion of various case studies. Participants will learn practical strategies that will help them support young children with behavior problems. This one-day training will only be offered on Friday, December 16, 2011, so register soon at http://www.utsprokids.org/. The $75 fee includes lunch. The conference will be held at the Marten House in Indianapolis.

New Training Opportunities through IACCRR Training Central

2011-10-28T13:35:00.000-04:00

The Indiana Association for Child Care Resource and Referral (IACCRR), announces the availability of online training opportunities to increase the access to information and resources for potential child care providers. Participants will need to register at: http://www.iaccrr.org/portal/?#tabs-training in order to access training opportunities.

In collaboration with The Bureau of Child Care and your local child care resource and referral organization, IACCRR has launched Orientation I Online-Overview for participants who are interested in starting the business of child care.

Orientation I is a “guided tour” through the regulatory processes, requirements for different types of legal care, state and federal laws impacting child care, educational opportunities as well as a quick look at the business side of child care. This online session provides the basics so individuals can make informed decisions about whether to open a child care center, family child care home, or child care ministry.

Participants will need a computer with internet access and audio and flash player capabilities.

Car Seat Clinic

2011-10-24T09:36:00.002-04:00

The Indiana Criminal Justice Institute and the Automotive Safety Program will host a car seat clinic on 10/30/11 (Sunday) from 9:30 am – 1:30 pm at the parking lot of the Indianapolis Children Museum (3000 N. Meridian St. Indianapolis IN 46208-4716). All qualify (no financial need is required), no donation is required, first coming first serve (no appointment is required); car seats will provided basis to children who need. Child (except for expectant), vehicle, old car seat (if have) and child guardian must be present. To make this event a great success we need your help. If you can help, please let me now ASAP and be at the event 45 minutes early. Thank you for your generosity and have a wonderful day.

El Instituto de Justicia Criminal de Indiana y el Programa de Seguridad Automotor presentará una clínica sobre los asientos de bebe para los coches el domingo, el 30 de octubre desde las 9:30 hasta la 1:30 en el estacionamiento del Children’s Museum de Indianápolis (3000 N. Meridian St. Indianápolis IN 46208-4716). Cualquier persona puede asistir (no requiere necesidad financiera), no se necesita donar dinero, y atenderemos a la gente por orden de llegada. El niño, el vehículo, el asiento de niño (si ya lo tiene) y el tutor del niño tendrán que estar presentes. Si se puede ayudar con el evento, por favor contacte a Mauricio Joya y esté al evento con 45 minutos de anticipación. Muchísimas gracias por su generosidad. Que tenga un buen día.

Riley Child Development Center Training

2011-10-14T11:52:00.000-04:00

RCDC Training Events

Friday, October 21, 2011

- Autism Screening – 9 AM – 12 PM
- Autism Interventions: Current Treatment Options and Resources - 1 PM to 4 PM
Riley Outpatient Conference Center Room A-B

Autism Interventions: Current Treatment Options and Resources: Awareness of and interest in Autism Spectrum disorders has led to an overwhelming amount of information about treatment and resources in support of children with this diagnosis. Join us for an overview of current research based treatment options and available resources. Included will be a panel discussion with Indianapolis area providers to the autism community.

Autism Screening: Over the past decade, no pediatric developmental diagnosis has been more discussed and studied than autism. Given the proven positive impact of early intervention services on a child with autism's lifelong social and communication skills, having and knowing how to use the screening tools for the initial signs of autism are crucial.

Being able to quickly, but accurately, assess for the early delays, which could indicate a pervasive developmental disorder, and having the resources to provide families with the proper needed interventions and services will be the topics covered.

Registration Fees: $50 for each session or $80 for both.

Parking in the adjacent Riley Outpatient Garage will be validated for participants.

Certificates of completion for three contact hours for each session will be provided to those who complete the workshop.

Registration is now open. Each training session has 60 spaces available.
Please Contact Rylin Rodgers ryrodger@iupui.edu with any questions.

"Brain Food" For Kids

2011-10-11T12:27:00.002-04:00

Eating the proper foods will help ensure your kids success throughout the day!

On The Early Show Thursday, contributor and registered dietician Keri Glassman explained the ABCs of eating smart to fuel the mind as well as the body.

BREAKFAST

Studies show children who start their day with a healthy breakfast do better academically and have fewer behavior problems.

If a child doesn't eat breakfast, he or she may become tired, irritable, restless, and fail to focus on academics or behave appropriately.

A study done at Tuft's University reinforced the belief that breakfast improves children's academic performance. The researchers divided the children into two groups. One group was fed instant oatmeal (a complex carbohydrate containing fiber and protein), and the other dry, readymade cereal (lower in fiber, higher in sugar). The results showed kids fed the oatmeal did better on special and short-term memory tests, as well as auditory attention tests.

Whole grains and protein are digested more slowly, providing a sustained source of energy. Blood sugar remains stable. Foods made of refined sugars (such as fruit-flavored characters, packaged cookies, white bread, etc.) set kids up for a sugar high (rush), followed by a crash.

Breakfast foods for the brain:

•Oatmeal (for instance, Uncle Sam's fortified with flax) made with skim milk and topped with raspberries, which are a great source of antioxidants, specifically Vitamin C, and have been shown to improve cognitive function and protect the brain.

•Scrambled fortified eggs with one ounce of cheese rolled up in a whole wheat tortilla: Choline in eggs boosts memory and concentration, and eggs are a great source of protein. Omega 3s provide an added brain boost!

•French Toast (soak one slice of whole grain bread in one scrambled, fortified egg, add chopped walnuts and cinnamon. Walnuts contain those Omega 3's, and cinnamon helps stabilize blood sugar levels.

LUNCH

A well-balanced lunch is key to keeping a child's energy up and blood sugar stable. A high fat, high sugar lunch (which can often be found in school cafeterias) will lead to an afternoon crash. Depending on what's offered at your child's school, you may want to consider packing a nutritious lunch!

Lunch Foods for the brain:

•Turkey/hummus wrap: Smear hummus on a whole grain tortilla, layer with two-to-four slices of turkey, wrap and serve with sliced red peppers. Have a side of Breyers DHA-fortified yogurt. Turkey has the amino acid tyrosine, which is related to the production of specific neuro-transmitters, which aid alertness and energy. Red peppers are a great source of antioxidants, specifically Vitamin C, have been shown to improve cognitive function, and are brain-protective.

•Peanut butter/banana sandwich: Spread peanut butter over a slice of whole grain bread. Add one cup of strawberries and a cup skim milk.

•Salmon salad on a whole grain English muffin: Prep salmon as you would tuna, OR use plain yogurt for a calcium and protein boost!

DINNER

This offers another great chance to incorporate brain foods! Aim for half the plate to be green/colorful veggies, a-quarter whole grains, and a quarter lean protein.

•Turkey burger platter: Turkey burger with tomato slices, sautéed spinach in olive oil, and wild rice. Iron is important for energy and concentration, zinc for memory. Vitamin C helps iron absorption.

•Meatballs and spaghetti: lean meat meatballs, fortified pasta such as Ronzoni or Barilla Plus with Omega 3's, marinara sauce, steamed broccoli.

•Pork Tenderloin: roasted pork tenderloin, roasted asparagus, quinoa

SNACKS

•Apple slices dipped in peanut butter or almond butter

•Yogurt Sundae: DHA-fortified yogurt layered with Go Lean Crunch Honey Almond Flax, berries, and walnuts

•DHA/Omega-3s: important for brain development and function. DHA is found in gray brain matter, brain cell membranes, and is important for brain cell communication

•Trail Mix: Puffins cereal mixed with dried cranberries and almonds

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/08/14/earlyshow/health/main4350193.shtml

Director’s Toolbox Management Series

2011-10-10T12:57:00.005-04:00

Calling all Center Directors and Licensed Family Child Care Providers… This management series is for Early Childhood Administrators that want to strengthen the business aspect of your child care while networking with other directors? Each session is $10 and registration is required.

10/15/2011-- 9:30am-10:30am, "Grant-writing– Show Me the Money"!
11/16/2011-- 9am-11am, "Growing Your Staff with Effective Supervision"
11/19/2011 --9:30am-10:30am, "The 1.2.3’s of Taxes for Child Care Businesses"
12/13/2011-- 6pm-9pm, "Relationship-Based and Reflective Organizations"

Questions Contact Joslyn at Child Care Answers 317 636-5727 ext. 257

Project Home Indy

2011-09-26T10:23:00.002-04:00

Project Home Indy (PHI) is a new residential facility that serves pregnant and parenting teenagers. PHI has a current license and contract through DCS, and I am writing you because I think PHI could be a good placement option for your clients. It's also a great resource to pass along to any other DCS case managers to spread the word!

PHI is located at 32nd and Meridian, and is able to serve up to 5 pregnant and parenting teens and their children. Our general requirements are as follows:

To be eligible for the program, residents:
- must be between 15-19 years of age at intake
- must be pregnant or have 1 child under the age of 3
- must be committed to completing high school or a GED
- must not have a violent criminal history
- must not have a serious mental health issue that would interfere with parenting or living in a shared community, or a substance abuse issue that they have not had treatment for

More information, and a referral form, can be found on our website at http://www.projecthomeindy.org/.

As you may know, PHI is the only facility in Marion County that serves this unique population. Each resident will share a private bedroom with their child. The rest of the home is shared space, and feels like a true "home". Please email me or my supervisor Sarah Nielsen (CC'd on this email) with any questions. We would also invite you to come out for a tour, to see the facility firsthand!

Why Your Toddler Doesn't Listen

2011-09-20T09:05:00.002-04:00

When my son was 18 months old, I went along with a friend to pick up her child from preschool. Some of the kids were just a year older, but they were listening to the teacher and following directions. When I imagined my child sitting there on that A-B-C carpet, I felt queasy. Follow directions? Him? After all, if I asked him to pour food from a cup into in the dog bowl, he'd be more likely to pile it into his dump truck instead.

Turns out there wasn't anything wrong with my son; experts say that young toddlers still have trouble focusing on what you're saying and following directions. "Toddlers are inherently distractible. They don't have the ability to stick with one thing as long as an older child can. After a couple of minutes, they're off to other adventures," explains psychologist Rahil Briggs, Psy.D., assistant professor in the department of pediatrics at the Albert Einstein College of Medicine, in New York City. In other words, it's perfectly natural for your 15-month-old to wander across the room to the bookshelf halfway through the book you're reading aloud. Another reason your toddler may not comply with your requests: She's taking her first steps toward becoming her own person. "A toddler won't always be willing to do what you want because she's flexing her new independence muscle," says Dr. Briggs. "In fact, she may even be tempted to do exactly the opposite of what you ask."

Fortunately, if you practice now your child will be ready to get with the program in preschool. Capitalize on her natural love of playing games with these ability-boosting activities.

Chili Made Healthy

2011-09-20T09:03:00.001-04:00

Ingredients

1 tablespoon olive oil
1 medium-size onion, chopped
2 cloves garlic, peeled and chopped
3 tablespoons chili powder
2 sweet bell peppers, cored and diced
1 medium-size zucchini, trimmed and diced
1 can (14.5 ounces) diced tomatoes
1 can (8 ounces) no-salt-added tomato sauce
1/4 cup ketchup
1/2 teaspoon dried oregano
1 can (15 ounces) black beans, drained and rinsed
1 can (15 ounces) small white beans, drained and rinsed
1 can (15 ounces) red kidney beans, drained and rinsed
grated cheese, for serving (optional)
Make It

1. Heat oil in a large nonstick saucepot over medium heat. Add onion, garlic and chili powder and cook 3 minutes.

2. Add peppers and zucchini and continue to cook 5 minutes, stirring occasionally.

3. Stir in tomatoes, tomato sauce, ketchup and oregano. Cook 8 minutes.

4. Gently stir in the beans. Cover pot and continue to cook 3 minutes. Serve with grated cheese, if desired.

Thank you!

2011-09-15T13:01:00.004-04:00

Please THANK the following companies for their generous contributions to our Parent / Child Care Provider Recognition Event on September 10th!

Applied Industrial Technologies Breath of Life
Chick-Fil-A in Avon
Chick-Fil-A on Southport Rd.
Fiesta Hair Salon in Avon
Hobinson Milk Company
Kaplan
Lakeshore Learning Materials
Menards
Olive Garden in Avon
Sams Club on Rockville Rd.
Target at Southport and Emerson
The following Kroger stores located at:
• County Line and Emerson
• Thompson and Emerson
• East Washington Street
• Independence Drive
• Linwood Square
• East Street
The following Marsh stores located at:
• Thompson and Emerson
• Lockerbie
Southport United Methodist Church
USA Foods
Walmart at Emerson and County Line

Without the generousty of the above companies our day would not have been a success.

Conferencia Latina de Cuidado Infantil 2011

2011-09-14T13:26:00.003-04:00

Sàbado 24 de Septiembre, 2011

9:00am-3:00pm(Las registraciones comienzan a las 8:00am)

Costo: $20.00 (Incluye almuerzo)

Iglesia Second Presbyterian

7700 N Meridian Street

Indianspolis, IN 46260

Para màs informaiòn llamar a

Yully 1-800-299-1627 Ext. 309

o Amy Torres (317) 636-5727 Ext. 237

Youth Violence Prevention Summit

2011-09-13T10:14:00.000-04:00

September 21, 2011 ~ 8:00am-12:30pm

Guilford Township Community Center

1500 South Center Street, Plainfield, IN

Join us for this FREE interactive and informative day featuring nationally renowned speaker and author, SuEllen Fried from Bully Safe USA. She will cover the five kinds of bullying - physical, verbal, emotional, sexual and cyber-bullying along with strategies for changing the culture of bullying.

Starting the day, Jennifer Pyatt from the Brownsburg Police Department will cover many of the specific risks associated with cyber-bullying, internet safety, sexting and what your role is in preventing related youth violence. FREE breakfast will also be provided for attendees.

RSVP to jhill@co.hendricks.in.us or 317-745-9372

Upcoming Webinar on Nutrition

2011-09-07T10:09:00.000-04:00

Eating Healthy on a Budget the Sesame Way!

Wednesday, September 21 at 12 Noon ET

Join Sesame Workshop in an interactive session that will provide multimedia tools for parents and caregivers of young children to cope with the challenges of food insecurity. We will provide specific strategies to help support families with: ways to create positive experiences around food for children with engaging key messages that promote basic nutrition; language to use when discussing healthy habits and food insecurity with children; and guidance on achieving a nutritious, balanced diet on a budget. During the session, we will share the materials in our Food for Thought outreach kit and explain how they can be used with children and families in fun and educational ways.

Presented by, Rocío Galarza, Senior Director of Outreach and Content Design for Sesame Workshop.

To register for the workshop click here.

Try out the new online child care search and give us your feedback!

2011-09-02T11:28:00.000-04:00

Child Care Answers is testing a NEW online child care search and we would like you to try the new process and give us your feedback. We have worked to enhance the current online child care search, and will be continually working on the system to make sure it is user-friendly and helpful to all families in Indiana searching for child care.

To try the new online child care search, go to: https://uatup.naccrraware.net/orm/ormLogin.action?uid=NW0I9469J73B74Z

When you are done with your search, please complete a short survey so you can give us feedback about your experience. To access the survey, go to: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/HLBNNJH

Please complete your online search, and survey, by Tuesday, September 6th.

Your feedback on this new online referral search tool, which will soon be a nationwide search option, is very valuable as we continue to make changes that make your child care search easier! Thank you for your participation and feedback!

Step Up for Kids Rally

2011-08-29T13:53:00.000-04:00

Step Up for Kids

SATURDAY, OCTOBER 15, 2011

10 a.m. South Steps of Indiana Statehouse

Join Indiana families and youth advocates from all over the state for our 4th Annual Step Up For Kids Event

Following the Rally The Day Nursery invites us to enjoy fun and games until 2 p.m. at their North Government Center playground.

Come & Bring Your Friends To Help Us Raise Awareness

How to teach poison safety to children

2011-08-24T10:59:00.000-04:00

Do you teach injury prevention programs for preschool and/or elementary school children?
Are you looking for a new safety topic?
Would you like to promote poison safety in your own community?

Who? For people who teach injury prevention programs for preschool and elmentary school children.

How long? 3 hours. Provides poison prevention background for the instructor, how to
effectively teach poison safety to children and how to get the safety message home to parents.

How much? The workshop is FREE

Where? 1812 N. Capitol, Wile Hall, 1st Floor, Room 128, Methodist Hospital, Indianapolis

When? Tuesday, September 13th from 12-3pm.

Workshop is limited to 12 participants

To register, contact:
Barbara Cole
317-962-9248

bcole@iuhealth.org

Great Resource for Early Childhood Educators

2011-08-22T16:58:00.004-04:00

Free Sample Training Guide

NEXT for Young Children is an electronic publication that accompanies each issue of Young Children. It is designed for teacher educators, staff development specialists, center directors, and principals to use in classes and training sessions. Each issue includes discussion questions, research-to-practice connections, and training session activities that build on the content from selected articles. This great resource is free for a limited time.
Download a Free Sample on line... http://www.naeyc.org/yc/next

2011-08-22T16:54:00.001-04:00

Early Intervention Course at Indiana University School of Education

Indiana University's School of Education is now offering K500: Introduction to Early Intervention during the fall 2011 semester.
Course Description:
This course explores research and practice in early intervention for infants and toddlers with developmental concerns and their families. Coursework is organized around principles of practice for intervention that is: (a) family-centered and strengths-based; (b) incorporated into everyday activities with familiar people; (c) developmentally sound; (d) oriented toward active and functional child engagement; and (e) implemented systematically and with coordination across disciplines.
Course Topics Include:
Principles of high quality early intervention practice
Family perspectives in early intervention
Research and strategies to enable strong family involvement
Mediating learning to promote active child and family engagement
Systematic practices from developmental and behavioral perspectives
Issues in evidence-based early intervention practices
Principles and methods of transdisciplinary practice
Who Should Enroll?
Master’s degree students, practicing professionals, and others holding a Bachelor’s degree.
Online Format:
Course activities will be conducted in an interactive fully online environment featuring weekly discussions focused on topical readings, video conferences, projects, and exploration in areas of individual interest. Individualized support is available for online participation.
Instructor:
Hannah Schertz, Ph.D. hschertz@indiana.edu. The instructor has extensive experience in early intervention delivery, research in early intervention for toddlers with ASD and their families, and online graduate teaching.
To enroll: Contact slavende@indiana.edu
Note: this course may count toward the Infant Toddler Certificate

Childhood Immunization

2011-08-22T16:42:00.001-04:00

Childhood Immunization Schedule Generator

To help parents keep their children on track for immunizations, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention has set up an online tool that will generate a schedule for children birth through age six. The tool will even send email updates. For more information, visit http://www2a.cdc.gov/nip/kidstuff/newscheduler_le/

Scholarships for Healthy Homes Healthy Child Care Conference in Indianapolis

2011-08-15T13:01:00.000-04:00

Dear Indiana Child Care Provider,

Please join us for the Healthy Homes Healthy Child Care conference in Indianapolis on October 5th and 6th. Registration is now open and licensed or registered child care providers are eligible for scholarships to cover the conference registration cost (a $160 savings!). Thanks to Duke Energy for the scholarship grant!

So don't miss your chance to attend this conference. The agenda is attached and you'll see the child care specific track in rooms 1 and 2, though you may attend any session you wish.

Clock hours available to be earned at the conference: 10.75 hrs for attendance on Oct 5 and 6. An additional 5.5 hrs are available for attending the Oct 4 Pre-Conference Master Home Environmentalist Training.

You may send 2 people per site on scholarship. (You can request scholarships for additional attendees, but they will be put on a waiting list.) Scholarships are available on a first come first serve basis.

A link and directions for free registration are below (keep scrolling down).

Session topics include bed bugs, emergency action planning, safe toys, turning trash into treasure and so much more!

Here are a few comments from last year's child care attendees:

All of the sessions regarding childcare centers were excellent!

I cannot believe how much I have learned over these 2 days. I can only hope I have taken diligent enough notes to digest. But I have the awareness of the resources available to make our centers even better than they currently stand.

Every session has been very helpful, equally important, and useful. I plan on taking action as soon as I get back to my center to ensure that we are providing a healthy and safe environment.

The conference was great and well worth my time. Very helpful information that I can use and take back to my staff in the childcare setting.

I had a great experience. It was eye opening. I learned a lot about lead poisoning and prevention. How lead affects all of the children I care for.

This is my first conference so I can’t say what should be added, I loved everything!

This year’s conference was very informative about the health of children. It was great.

Overall excellent!

Register for the conference online at: www.ikecoalition.org/2011Conference. Click on "Register," then enter your email address and complete the security check code. Choose the "Child Care Scholarship" and enter the registration code "5STARscholar".

Hope to see you there!
Karen Teliha
Community Environmental Health & Education Indiana Dept. of Environmental Management
800-988-7901

Youth Violence Prevention Summit

2011-08-09T07:56:00.000-04:00

Youth Violence Prevention Summit

Save the Date: September 21, 2011

Guilford Township Community Center

8:00am-Noon

Join us for an interactive and informative day featuring nationally renowned speaker and author, SuEllen Fried from Bully Safe USA. She will cover all aspects of bullying including social media and school violence.
During the second session, Law Enforcement Experts will cover cyber-bulling, internet safety, sexting, and your role in preventing related youth violence.

RSVP to jhill@co.hendricks.in.us or 317-745-9372

Topic: Cuts to Children’s Services and Their Effect

2011-08-09T07:51:00.000-04:00

Children's Coalition of Indiana
Children’s Policy

Education Series 2011

UPCOMING SESSION ~ Reserve your seat today!

Topic: Cuts to Children’s Services and Their Effect—

What Can We Do?

August 26, 2011 ~ 12:00‐2:00 p.m. ET

United Way of Central Indiana, RCI Room

3901 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis

RSVP by August 19 to Leslie Hankins– lhankins@ayskids.org, 317‐803‐3134 x18

Brown bag lunch sessions— feel free to bring your lunch; drinks and dessert will be provided.

Parking is available to the rear of the building, with the public entrance located in the rear at security.

Scheduled Panel:

• James Payne, Director, Indiana Dept. of Child Services

• Representative Bill Crawford

• Senator Travis Holdman

• Cathy Graham, Executive Director, IARCCA

This panel will discuss the recent budget cuts and how these cuts may affect Hoosier children.
The discussion will also explore ways in which child advocates and service providers may work with the
administration and lawmakers to protect necessary services for children.

FREE Webinar: Manage, Motivate and Retain Great Early Childhood Staff!

2011-08-08T12:27:00.003-04:00

August 10, 2011-- 2 pm EDT
5 Simple Steps To Help You Manage, Motivate and Retain Great Staff

Tired of workplace negativity, drama and GOSSIP?

Are staff motivation issues draining your time and energy?

5 Simple Steps to Help You Manage, Motivate and Retain Great Staff, will help you discover a step-by step plan of action to help you manage, motivate and retain great staff.

You’ll leave this session with strategies to help you:
• Create a cohesive, high-functioning team
• Inspire team members to make behavior changes
• Motivate team members to achieve higher goals
• Eliminate destructive communication patterns (GOSSIP!)
• Break down barriers that are keeping your team stuck
• Reduce turnover and absenteeism
• Retain Motivated Staff

Fundraising & Other Answers

2011-08-08T10:58:00.006-04:00

IMMEDIATE HELP IS ON THE WAY: Fundraising & Other Answers on Toll Free Line
Are you freaking out due to tight fundraising or legal and personnel issues? Free help is available right away.

The Help Line quickly delivers a wide range of fundraising answers and information.
The Help Line can conduct prospect research, review a grant proposal and provide advice on direct mail,
special events and other fundraising techniques and strategies.

In addition, the Help line offers up to 30 minutes of free legal assistance from the nonprofit law experts at Baker & Daniels.

The call is toll free, and so are the answers, information and advice:
1-877-IYI-TIPS (1-877-494-8477)

10 Back-to-School Tips for Parents of Preschoolers

2011-08-05T13:45:00.003-04:00

Start a successful school year—and keep it going!

1. If you and your child have fallen out of your bedtime routine this summer, get back into a solid routine! A week before the first day of school is a good time frame in which to begin.

2. Plan and shop for healthy breakfasts and lunches a week in advance. This will save you precious time and prevent much stress in the long run!

3. Accidents happen! Prepare a change of clothes in advance, and bring it with you on the first day of school for your child’s teacher to keep in the classroom.

4. If possible, arrange play dates with other parents of preschoolers, or find out if your local library or community center offers free events for young children. Spending time with other children will help your child’s social and emotional development and prepare her for the school environment.

5. Connect with other parents and students on the first day back to preschool. Introduce yourself and your child. Bring a show-and-tell item to break the ice, or a snack to share with the class.

6. Be prepared for tears. Smile, stay positive, and maintain a calm demeanor when your child is having a hard time saying goodbye. If you start to panic, your child will pick up on your doubt.

7. Support early literacy by reading to your child every day. As she grows older, ask that she read to you.

8. Keep books everywhere—in the car, in the kitchen, and anywhere you spend time. Make special weekend trips to the library to freshen up the collection.

9. Parents involvement in school is important—even in preschool! Talk to your child’s preschool teacher (or child-care provider) regularly about his educational and social development.

10. Preschools and childcare centers often host parent and family activities; attend these as often as possible to help your child begin bonding to the educational system.

FIRST TIMERS

2011-08-05T13:39:00.000-04:00

Back to School: Tips and Tries for Preschoolers
By Ossining Children's Center
It’s August - the time of year when our attention turns from summer fun activities to preparing children to enter school for the first time, or return to a new level.

Ossining Children’s Center, the not-for-profit early education center in Ossining, NY, would like to make the transition easier for parents and children and offers tips and tries to make September’s entry to preschool as painless and exciting as possible.

FIRST TIMERS-3 Tips for preparing your child for preschool:

Begin talking about the new pre-school/day care center in August. Talk about what the child can expect including teachers, other children, games, etc.

Take the child to visit the center and meet the teachers

Make practice runs to the school – if possible – 2 weeks before the first day to get the child accustomed to the new schedule and familiar with the school itself

If possible, make a play date with another youngster entering the school

Get a book about school at the local library and read it to your child.

WHAT TO PACK - 5 Items to include in your child’s backpack:

1. Especially for first-time children, pack a picture of yourself with the child.

2. A full change of clothes

3. Any medical information the school may need including pediatrician’s phone number and medical issues the child has

4. A plastic, waterproof folder for teachers to send notes and information home in

5. Transitional object, i.e. a favorite stuffed toy or blanket

WHAT NOT TO PACK – Items that could cause problems:

1. Toys

2. Candy, gum, soda, food

HOW TO MAKE THE TRANSITION WITH YOUR CHILD:

1. Plan to spend part of the first morning with your child, or nearby. Tears are normal and common for both child and parent. For some children, the transition is made easier if it is gradual. Each child is different, though. Talk with the staff about separation issues.

2. On the other hand, don’t stay too long. Often a child’s crying stops shortly after the parent leaves. Let the staff be your guide on this – they have helped many children and parents through separation anxiety.

3. Talk to your child about their teachers and new friends. Ask questions to determine if they are adjusting.

4. If your child has concerns about a teacher or another child be sure to let the school know as soon as possible.

5. When possible, begin to make play-dates for older pre-schoolers with classmates.

This is a highly charged time for all children and parents and there are bound to be moments of tears and frustration for everyone. As much time as you can devote to gradually starting your new schedule and familiarizing both your child and yourself with all of the new adjustments that will have to be made – will be time well spent.

Ultimately the most important thing is to assure your child that pre-school and learning are exciting and fun. Stay in communication by asking questions about their day, their activities and the new things they experienced.

Education Opportunity: Roadmap to Special Education

2011-08-04T10:05:00.000-04:00

Roadmap to Special Education: Laws and Process

Wednesday August 31, 2011 8:30 am to 4:00pm

Overview: This workshop, combining the Article 7 and IEP training, is all day training that offers basic information about special education laws and regulations for Indiana children ages 3-21. In addition, this training will provide information on how to prepare for a case conference and write an IEP. This training is a great opportunity for family members and professionals who advocate for children with a disability or serious chronic illness.

Register online at www.aboutspecialkids.org/training

Registration for the training will be closed on August 29, 2011

Location:

Speedway United Methodist Church
5065 W. 16th Street
Indianapolis, IN 46224

Cost: $ 40 – Families Members*
$ 75 - Professionals

Questions:
Email asktraining@aboutspecialkids.org

2011-08-03T11:21:00.002-04:00

Attention Level 2, 3, and 4 Paths to QUALITY providers, did you get your invitation in the mail yet? Make sure you respond by August 12th so we can send you out a tool kit to invite your families!

Join us for a fun filled afternoon to celebrate your achievements on Paths to QUALITY! We will also celebrate parents that have chosen quality childcare. There will be games, light food and giveaways!

When: Saturday, September 10th 11am-3pm

Location: Indianapolis, IN
Please reply by August 12th for you and your family! We will then send you a tool kit to invite your child care families. Reply to Emily Barrow at emilyb@childcareanswers.com or call (317) 636-5727

Child Care Answers Goes to the State Fair

2011-08-01T13:51:00.000-04:00

The Indiana State Fair starts in just a few days and runs till

August 21st. Child Care Answers is proud to be a part of the fair this year by being a sponsor of the Lactation Station. Child Care Answers will have banners posted around the station and the Child Care Answers logo on staff shirts. If you happen to be at the fair stop by and check it out.

Are you 15-19 and pregnant or a first time parent?

2011-08-01T11:48:00.000-04:00

You could get paid to be involved in a 90-minute discussion group where you share advice, opinions,
and experiences.

OR

You could get paid to take part in a 4-day workshop where you learn to make videos to communicate
health information.

TELL YOUR STORY!

To see if you qualify,please call the study coordinator at: 317.274.8646

This is a confidential research study conducted by Indiana University-Purdue University Indianapolis IUPUI Study #1106006091

25 Central Indiana Child Care Ministries Achieve Voluntary Certification

2011-07-25T13:53:00.001-04:00

The end of June this year marked the end of a year-long child care ministry improvement project in Central Indiana. The project focused on improving the quality of care in 60 child care ministries with the ultimate goal of ministries meeting the standards for the Voluntary Certification Program (VCP). The project was made possible by funds through the American Recovery and Reinvestment act (ARRA) and was led by United Way of Central Indiana. Child Care Answers played a vital role in the project by providing mentors to help guide the ministries to Paths to QUALITY. Improving quality was accomplished in several ways in addition to the mentoring services. Child care staff received mini-grants for professional development and therefore improved their skills in working with children. The ministries also received curriculum materials for their classrooms to improve those areas as well. By the end of the project 19 child care ministries had achieved VCP and will be enrolled in Paths to QUALITY. This is in addition to the 6 child care ministries who had participated in a limited pilot project making for a total of 25 ministries.

Regulations for child care ministries in the State of Indiana are very minimal. A ministry must register with the state and meet basic health and safety guidelines. A ministry that has achieved VCP has gone above and beyond the requirements and met additional staff training and requirements, child-staff ratios and stricter classroom guidelines. Ministries must meet VCP in order to enroll in Paths to QUALITY.

Child Care Answers will continue its work on improving child care ministries by once again partnering with United Way of Central Indiana and assisting 20 additional ministries in working towards Voluntary Certification. Ministries located in Boone, Hamilton, Hancock, Hendricks and Marion County interested in the program can contact Ginger Caylor at (317) 926-3401 ext. 306 for more information. The application deadline is Friday, July 29th.

Latch On Indy! The Big Pink Bus is Coming!

2011-07-18T09:52:00.000-04:00

Milk for Thought’s Giant Pink Bus for Breastfeeding Heads to Indianapolis - July 26

Breastfeeding has been making headlines lately — from The Surgeon General's Call to Action to the First Lady's Let's Move Campaign to a passionate advocacy and support network to multiple celebrity endorsements.

Using this momentum, Milk for Thought is taking the energy, passion and dedication of the breastfeeding community on the road — for 45 days, 30 cities, and 1 goal — to support, empower and connect the breastfeeding community. Join us at this national event on July 26th to highlight resources available to pregnant women and breastfeeding moms.

Everyone is welcome — stop by any time during the day, and bring friends, babies, kids, coworkers — the more the merrier! Let's show how passionate Indiana is about breastfeeding! We'll have food, drinks, music, children's book giveaways, and much more...

Stop 1:

July 26, 2011
9:00 am – 12:00 pm
Day Nursery, IU Health Methodist
2140 Boulevard Place (21st and Senate Ave), Indianapolis 46202

Stop 2:
1:00 pm – 4:00 pm
Indiana State Fairgrounds
1202 E. 38th St., Indianapolis 46205
Enter through Fall Creek Gate 6 to the Toyota Blue Ribbon Pavilion Parking Lot

Indiana State Fair Kid's Day

2011-07-12T08:19:00.000-04:00

The Indiana State Fair will have a KIDS' DAY at the Fair on August 15th from 10am - 3pm. Activities include a hula hoop contest, meet PBS "Cat in the Hat", and a jump rope contest. Unlimited kiddie rides from noon-10pm for $10. That day is also IPL Carload day. Admission is only $15 per vehicle with a printed voucher from www.iplpower.com.

Program / Screening and Detection

2011-07-06T13:07:00.004-04:00

Program / Screening and Detection

Screening for cancer is a crucial tool in detecting cancer when it is in an early, more treatable stage. That is why Little Red Door schedules free cancer screenings at locations throughout the Indianapolis community reducing the healthcare barrier of accessibility. Little Red Door facilitates year-round screenings for Breast, Cervical, and Prostate Cancer.

Screenings
(View Calendar)

St. Vincent Mobile Mammograms
The mobile unit will be at Little Red Door Cancer Agency from 9:00am to 2:45pm (by appointment only), located at 1801 N. Meridian Street, Indianapolis, IN 46202.

Please call (317) 925-5595 begin_of_the_skype_highlighting ext. 321 to pre-register.

The mobile dates for 2011 are as follows:

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Must pre-register by August 24, 2011

Friday, October 21, 2011

Must pre-register by October 7, 2011

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Must pre-register by November 1, 2011

Monday, December 12, 2011

Must pre-register by November 28, 2011

For more information from our Screening and Detection Department, contact us at (317) 925-5595 begin_of_the_skype_highlighting (317) 925-5595 end_of_the_skype_highlighting

Mammography Assistance Program

Assists with clinical breast exams, screening and diagnostic mammograms, ultrasounds and biopsies. Mammograms are provided by a mobile unit year round.

Mammogram Screening Calendar

Other Screenings

Prostate Cancer Screenings – Contact Little Red Door Screening and Detection Department at 317-925-5595 begin_of_the_skype_highlighting 317-925-5595 end_of_the_skype_highlighting

Cervical Cancer Screenings - Held at specific clinics year around. Call Little Red Door for more information, 317-925-5595 begin_of_the_skype_highlighting 317-925-5595 end_of_the_skype_highlighting

Free Prostate Screening and Education Event

2011-07-06T13:03:00.001-04:00

Real Men Get It

Join Little Red Door and Father Boniface Hardin

for a FREE Prostate Health Event* and bring a companion.

Dinner will be available for anyone who attends.

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

4:30 pm – 6:30 pm

Little Red Door Cancer Agency

1801 N. Meridian St.

Indianapolis, IN 46202

Call 317-925-5595 begin_of_the_skype_highlightingend_of_the_skype_highlighting to register or
click here to register online.

Those eligible can get a free prostate screening.

*Eligible men who get screened receive a free gift.

HAPPY 4th of JULY from CHILD CARE ANSWERS!

2011-07-01T11:07:00.003-04:00

You have to love a nation that celebrates its independence every July 4, not with a parade of guns, tanks, and soldiers who file by the White House in a show of strength and muscle, but with family picnics where kids throw Frisbees, the potato salad gets iffy, and the flies die from happiness. You may think you have overeaten, but it is patriotism. ~Erma Bombeck

EPA Tips to Be Cool and Safe this Summer

2011-07-01T08:03:00.000-04:00

Limit the heat and the sun, but not the fun

WASHINGTON – The Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) is providing tips to protect people from the dangers of overexposure to the sun and heat while still enjoying summer activities. Excessive heat and ultraviolet

(UV) radiation are dangerous to people’s health. Each year, more people on average die in the U.S. from heat waves than from any other natural disaster. And every hour, one American dies from skin cancer, which is the most common cancer in the U.S.

During the summer months, days are longer and more people are outside for longer periods of time, increasing the health risks from heat exhaustion and overexposure to the sun. Cities and suburbs are particularly vulnerable to higher temperatures during the summer. Many cities and suburbs have air temperatures that can be up to 22 degrees Fahrenheit warmer than the surrounding countryside. Buildings and roads intensify heat and UV dangers as they absorb the sun’s rays and radiate the heat back throughout the day and night, known as the heat island effect. Heat islands can intensify heat waves. To help reduce the heat island effect, plant trees, shrubs, and vines, which create shade and protect people from UV radiation.

To avoid heat exhaustion and overexposure to the sun, follow these steps to stay cool and safe this summer:

1. Stay hydrated.

2. Wear lightweight clothing. To keep your body temperature down and

stay protected from UV radiation, wear lightweight, light-colored,

and loose-fitting clothing.

3. Apply sunscreen. Approximately 30 minutes before heading outside,

apply SPF 15 or higher sunscreen, and reapply every two hours.

4. Protect your eyes and face. Wear a wide-brimmed hat and sunglasses

to protect your eyes from sun damage and the development of

cataracts.

5. Seek shade. Find shade during the sun’s peak hours between 10 a.m.

and 4 p.m. to reduce the risk of too much sun exposure

6. Teach sun and heat safety. Keep an eye on others, particularly the

elderly, remind them to be safe in the sun and the heat. Watch for

signs of heat illnesses, which can include hot and dry skin,

confusion, hallucinations, and aggression.

7. Check the UV Index. When planning outdoor activities check the UV

Index to identify the times that pose the greatest risk for

overexposure to the sun.

8. Check the Air Quality Index. On hot summer days, ozone levels can

rise making the air unhealthy to breathe so be sure to check the

air quality index before heading outside.

More information on how to reduce the heat island effect:

http://www.epa.gov/heatisland/

More information on extreme heat events:

http://www.blogger.com/goog_607678867

More information on sun safety tips:

http://www.epa.gov/sunwise.

Check the UV index:

http://www.epa.gov/sunwise/uvindex.html

Check the Air Quality Index:

http://www.airnow.gov/

Child Care Answers Resource Library

2011-06-29T10:38:00.006-04:00

You are invited to visit our Resource Library!The Resource Library offers use of Classroom Kits, Teacher Resource Books, Use of the Laminator and more...

Where: 3522 N. Central, Indianapolis, IN 46205.
When: OPEN: Monday - Thursday 12:00 -5:30; 1st & 3rd Saturdays: 9:00 -12:30
CLOSED: Fridays & Saturday, July 2nd

Cost: There is an annual membership fee to join the Resource Library.
For more information call 926-3401 ext. 312 or visit our Resource Library online by clicking here.

Patriotic Craft and a Chance to Win a Teacher Basket!

2011-06-29T09:22:00.000-04:00

We posted several weeks ago about a chance at winning a teacher basket for submitting your children's artwork. What better time than the 4th of July to create some patriotic artwork with your children and have a chance at winning a teacher basket!

Here is a great craft idea suitable for all ages of children for salt-absorbing firework art!

Below is the original post for all the entry details. We look forward to seeing all the exciting fireworks!

Why is Safe, Quality Child Care Important?

Would you like to win a teacher basket worth $50.00 while helping our elected officials and community leaders understand how important safe, quality child care is to Indiana families?

How you ask?

1. Have the children that you care for create a creative piece of artwork.

2. Ask each child’s parent to write on the back of their child’s artwork Why Safe, Quality Child Care is important to their family.

3. Ask each parent to put their name (parent’s name), city and zip code on the back of the artwork.

4. Ask each parent to sign and date a release form saying that Child Care Answers can use their name and story in our work with elected officials and community leaders. The release form must also include your name, program name, address, phone number and email (if you have one).

5. Mail or bring the pieces of artwork along with the release papers to Child Care Answers at 615 N. Alabama Street Suite 300 Indianapolis, IN. 46204. All artwork must be received in our office by 2:00 PM on Friday, July 29, 2011 and be accompanied by a release form. (artwork will not be returned)

6. For every 5 pieces of artwork with story and release from we receive we will enter your name into the drawing for the $50.00 teacher basket.

(Send in 10, your name goes in twice etc…)

Calling All Teens

2011-06-24T12:39:00.001-04:00

During the summer it is so easy to say, "I have nothing to do!" No more excuses-here is a list of 50 things to do the next time you are bored!

1. Gather up a few friends, and have a picnic in your back .
2. Go on a walk and take pictures of trees, flowers, dogs, etc.
3. Buy some fashion magazines, pick out a couple of really cute outfits, and try to recreate them for less!
4. Bead some bracelets and sell them for charity.
5. Volunteer at the local animal or homeless shelter.
6. Clean your room!
7. Bake some cupcakes and deliver them to friends and family.
8. Play some childhood games like "Sorry", "Candyland", or "Pretty Pretty Princess".
9. Take your dog for a walk.
10. E-mail a friend you haven't spoken to in awhile.
11. Do 25 jumping jacks!
12. Look through old family scrapbooks, photo books, and yearbooks.
13. Make a root beer float.
14. Go to the movies with your siblings.
15. Go window-shopping with a friend.
16. Write a poem.
17. Make fresh, homemade fruit juice.
18. Give your dog a bath.
19. Make dinner for your family.
20. Baby-sit for a neighbor.
21. Have a sleepover party and watch scary movies.
22. Plan a vacation you want to take next summer.
23. Plant flowers in your yard.
24. Sign up for a class.
25. Have a bubble bath.
26. Make a mixed CD of your favorite songs and title it "The soundtrack of my life".
27. Order a pizza.
28. Splash around in a plastic kiddy pool.
29. Buy some crayons and a coloring book.
30. Read a book based on a movie you have seen.
31. Make a scrapbook of your baby pictures.
32. Get a job or an internship.
33. Start a diary and write in it everyday.
34. Spend the day at the library.
35. Draw a self-portrait.
36. Make a collage out of old magazines.
37. Run around in the sprinklers.
38. Go to a museum.
39. Go out for lunch with one of your parents.
40. Jump in the pool with your clothes on.
41. Eat last night's leftovers for breakfast.
42. Learn to sew or knit.
43. Invite friends over and have a tea party.
44. Swing on the swings at the park.
45. Tie-Dye a t-shirt or bed sheets with Kool-Aid!
46. Make a smoothie.
47. Learn how to define and spell 5 new words from the dictionary.
48. Make popsicles in your freezer.
49. Put on the radio and dance.
50. Go camping in your backyard!

Is Your Child Riding Safely?

2011-06-24T10:45:00.002-04:00

Car Seat Safety Check

hosted by State Farm

When: Saturday, June 25th 10 AM-2 PM

Where: Party Time Rentals

7250 N Keystone Avenue

Indianapolis, IN 46240 (across from Wal-Mart)

Have your child's car seat or booster seat checked by an expert.

IACCRR Crib Campaign

2011-06-20T12:45:00.001-04:00

The Indiana Association for Child Care Resource and Referral (IACCRR) has launched a campaign to help child care providers replace outdated cribs. If you would like to learn more about this program please click here.

Seeking Children's Artwork !!!

2011-06-14T10:12:00.000-04:00

Why is Safe, Quality Child Care Important?

Would you like to win a teacher basket worth $50.00 while helping our elected officials and community leaders understand how important safe, quality child care is to Indiana families?

How you ask?

1. Have the children that you care for create a creative piece of artwork.

2. Ask each child’s parent to write on the back of their child’s artwork Why Safe, Quality Child Care is important to their family.

3. Ask each parent to put their name (parent’s name), city and zip code on the back of the artwork.

4. Ask each parent to sign and date a release form saying that Child Care Answers can use their name and story in our work with elected officials and community leaders. The release form must also include your name, program name, address, phone number and email (if you have one).

5. Mail or bring the pieces of artwork along with the release papers to Child Care Answers at 615 N. Alabama Street Suite 300 Indianapolis, IN. 46204. All artwork must be received in our office by 2:00 PM on Friday, July 29, 2011 and be accompanied by a release form. (artwork will not be returned)

6. For every 5 pieces of artwork with story and release from we receive we will enter your name into the drawing for the $50.00 teacher basket.

(Send in 10, your name goes in twice etc…)

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!

2011-06-13T13:51:00.002-04:00

A Love Letter for The Father, on Father's Day
By Aaron Bull
Guest Writer

CBN.com --

For all things you've lead me through and taught me

And for promising me that you will never leave me

Through and through you've shown me the ropes

Helping me in anything and everything I face

Everyday you're there for me by simply calling your name

Rarely do I get to thank you enough. So on this special day, I do exactly that.

Thank you for being my father!

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Happy Father's Day!

2011-06-13T13:35:00.000-04:00

Mother's Day came first, but Father's Day wasn't too far behind. It's amazing what people accomplish when they put their minds to good use and encourage others to join their cause. It just wouldn't be the same without many of our holidays and Father's Day is one of them.

When you are finished reading about the history of Father's Day, learn about great gift, craft, and recipe ideas for Dad's big day over at our main Father's Day holiday page.

Who came up with the idea of Father's Day?

Her name was Sonora Louise Smart Dodd and she lived in Spokane, Washington. Sonora was the oldest of six children raised by their father, William Jackson Smart, when their mother died during childbirth. Sonora honored and revered her father, and while listening to a Mother's Day sermon in 1909, she determined there should also be a day to honor fathers.

Sonora gained local support and made her dream a reality one year later within her own city of Spokane, Washington. Sonora married John Bruce Dodd. She died March 22, 1978, several years after Father's Day became a permanent national observance.

Why June?

In 1910 Sonora chose June 19th as the day to celebrate Father's Day because that was her father's birthday. With support from the Spokane Ministerial Association and the YMCA, the first Father's Day was celebrated in Spokane on June 19, 1910.

When did the United States begin celebrating Father's Day?

1910 Spokane, Washington celebrates Father's Day.
1924 President Calvin Coolidge proclaimed the third Sunday in June as Father's Day.
1926 The formation of National Father's Day Committee in New York City.
1956 Father's Day was recognized by Joint Resolution of Congress.
1966 President Lyndon B. Johnson signed a presidential proclamation declaring that the third Sunday of June as Father's Day.
1972 President Richard Nixon established a permanent national observance of Father's Day to be held on the third Sunday in June.

Do other countries celebrate Father's Day?

Father's Day is celebrated in every part of the world. In the United States, Canada and most countries in Asia, Father's Day is celebrated on the third Sunday in June.

How can I make this Father's Day special for my Father?

There are all kinds of things you can do to make Father's Day special for your dad. Here are a few suggestions:

Make dad breakfast in bed.
Send him flowers, the red rose is the official Father's Day flower.
Do secret acts of kindness, this might include doing one of dad's chores for him, like taking out the garbage :)
Be obedient.
Do your chores, without being asked.
Get along with your brothers and sisters.
Make or take him out to dinner.
Send him an on-line greeting card.
Use our printables to make a heartfelt Father's Day card.
Check out some great ideas to make dad a homemade gift.

Spice up the Father's Day festivities with an activity or two.

1. Interview your father and/or grandfather. Ask questions about his birth, childhood, and what he did when he was a teenager. Find out favorite subjects in school, how he met your mother or grandmother. Inquire about his favorite job. End the interview by expressing your love for him.

2. Get together with a few other families and play the Father/Child Game. Divide into four father/child teams. Ask the fathers to leave the room while the children sit in chairs. Ask the same four or five questions to each child about their fathers. Bring in the fathers and ask them the same questions. Will the father and child have the same answers? Switch places and see how well the father's know the children. Award a red rose to the winning father/child team.

Question Ideas: Favorite color, movie, candy bar, color of toothbrush, memorable moment with you, best friend, hobby, talent, food, animal, cartoon, pizza topping, ice cream topping, restaurant. Most embarrassing moment. Favorite holiday.

3. Have a Father's Day BBQ or picnic. Make a crown for dad and let him know he's "King" for the day. This can be a family activity or extend an invitation to a few other families also. Make sure all the dad's are given "Royal Treatment".

Let's Move Child Care

2011-06-09T15:07:00.000-04:00

Introducing Let’s Move! Child Care: Tools for Child and Day Care Centers

Posted by Robin Schepper, Executive Director of Let’s Move! on June 08, 2011

We are pleased and excited to announce Let’s Move! Child Care, a new effort to work with child and day care providers to help our youngest children get off to a healthy start.

Everyone has a role to play in ending childhood obesity, and child and day care centers are certainly no exception. By providing a solid checklist on healthy nutrition, physical activity and screen time, we all can help take more responsibility for the healthy habits of our kids. We are starting off strong with commitments from the public sector: the Department of Defense and the General Services Administration; and also the private sector, Bright Horizons, the nation’s second largest childcare provider. All three are committing to implement the checklist which will reach over 280,000 children.

The checklist, which can be used by both providers and parents, is comprised of these five elements:

Physical Activity: Provide 1-2 hours of physical activity throughout the day, including outside play when possible.
Screen Time: No screen time for children under two years. For children age two and older, strive to limit screen time to no more than 30 minutes per week during child care, and work with parents and caregivers to ensure children have no more than 1-2 hours of quality screen time per day, the amount recommended by the American Academy of Pediatrics.
Food: Serve fruits or vegetables at every meal, eat meals family-style when possible, and no fried foods.
Beverages: Provide access to water during meals and throughout the day, and do not serve sugary drinks. For children age two and older, serve low-fat (1%) or non-fat milk, and no more than one 4-6 ounce serving of 100% juice per day.
Infant feeding: For mothers who want to continue breastfeeding, provide their milk to their infants and welcome them to breastfeed during the child care day; and support all new parents in their decisions about infant feeding.

First Lady Mrs. Obama unveiled Let’s Move! Child Care this morning while visiting children at CentroNia, a bilingual child care center in Washington, DC.“Everyone is going to see that these small changes can make a big difference. If our kids get into the habit of getting up and playing, if their palates warm up to veggies at an early age, and if they’re not glued to a TV screen all day, they’re on their way to healthy habits for life,” First Lady Mrs. Obama said. “That’s why I’m so excited about Let’s Move Child Care – because I know that childcare facilities and home-based providers can be a real building block for an entire generation of healthy kids.”

To best support child care providers who choose to meet these practices, Nemours is leading an effort to provide free, comprehensive resources and tools in a newly developed website, and the National Association of Child Care Resource and Referral Agencies is committed to providing technical assistance to providers. Child care providers and parents can go to HealthyKidsHealthyFuture.org for these free tools and resources and to share success stories. Let’s Move! Child Care comes as a combined effort from the government, private, and non-profit communities. Ending childhood obesity is a responsibility we all share, and working together, we will make a difference.

Travel Training for Youth Service Providers

2011-06-08T14:49:00.002-04:00

Public transportation can be a youth's ticket to independence—especially if they have an IndyGo Summer Youth Pass. After all, our service can get them to work, school, activities and more without having to rely on their parents or care givers.

However, for kids, teens and young adults who are unfamiliar with our bus service, it can seem like an intimidating experience. But we can help curb that anxiety with our travel training program.

On June 9 from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. and June 10 from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m., we will host a "train the trainer" workshop for youth service providers, enabling them to successfully teach their clients how to ride the bus.

These reservation-based sessions, which are limited to 55 participants, are free to staff and volunteers of Indianapolis-area service providers. Workshops will take place at the IndyGo facility, located just west of the Indianapolis Zoo at 1501 West Washington Street. The facility is accessible via the Route 8 and free parking is available in the front lot.

If interested in attending, please contact IndyGo business development coordinator Bryan Luellen at 317.614.9284 or bluellen@indygo.net.

Play and Learn Summer Schedule

2011-06-07T09:44:00.000-04:00

Looking for something FREE to do with your children this summer? Have you heard about our Play and Learn program? Play and Learn is a free, fun program for parents, grandparents, or caregivers and their children (ages infant to age 8) looking for a place to play!! We offer play/ learning opportunities, snacks and drinks, and an attendance incentive program.

Below is our Summer 2011 schedule and locations! We hope to see you there!

Mondays:

IPS School 58 - starting June 13th
321 N Linwood Ave.
9:30 am – 11:30 am

Tuesdays:
IPS School 56 – starting June 14th
2353 N. Columbia Ave.

9:30 am – 11:30 am

Wednesdays:

IPS School 31 - starting June 15th

Immanuel UCC

402 Prospect

9:30 am – 11:30 am

Thursdays:

SECS - HealthNet Clinic – starting June 16th

901 Shelby

3:30 pm – 5:00 pm-Senior Center

Fridays:

IPS School 51 - starting June 17th

3426 Roosevelt Ave

9:30 am – 11:30 am

2011 PRESCHOOL READI2011 READINESS CAMPNESS CAMP

2011-06-06T14:07:00.000-04:00

Who: Preschool-age children with delays in speech & language skills, cognitive & social skills, or fine & gross motor skills

What: Summer day camp developed and run by First Steps therapists specifically designed to address developmental delays and improve your child’s transition to school in a therapeutic peer group setting

When: Two 3-week sessions 9AM-11AM Mon, Wed, & Fri June 13-July 1 & July 11-July 29

Where: Children’s Therapy Connection
7424 Shadeland Station Way Indpls, IN 46256

Enroll by June 3rd for only $75 per week or $30 per day
Sign up for all 6 weeks and get 1 week free! Plus, 2nd child is 25% off!
Need-based scholarships available on a limited basis

See our website for more details. Call to reserve your spot today! (317) 288-7606
http://www.childrenstherapyconnection.com/

Handwriting Camp

2011-06-06T14:04:00.000-04:00

Does your child need help holding a pencil? What about copying shapes or cutting on a line?
Can your child print his or her name? Do your child’s letters and words run all over the paper?

If this sounds like your child, he or she may enjoy attending a fun,week-long, summer Handwriting Camp!
Feeding Friends Children’s Feeding Clinic and Therapy Services is pleased to be offering two different summer camps, one group for Kindergarten Readiness and one for Beginning Printing.

The groups will be run by an Occupational Therapist who will focus on helping your child improve pre-writing and writing skills for school, using the principles of Handwriting Without Tears. Handwriting Without Tears is the official program adopted by the state of Indiana for school writing programs.

Each group will have 3-4 children and will run for 1 ½ hours each day. Each child will receive a Handwriting Without Tears notebook, a chalkboard with chalk, handouts for writing tips, and a bag to carry all their fun handwriting gear!

When: Monday June 13 through Friday June 17, 2011
Where: Feeding Friends Children’s Feeding Clinic & Therapy Services
11699 Maple St. Fishers, IN 46038
Times: Kindergarten Readiness Group—9:30-11:00 am
Beginning Printing Group—11:15-12:45 pm
Cost: $125 per child

Contact: Elaine Lewis, MS, OTR at 652-7330 or otelaine@sbcglobal.net

Free Fishing Weekend

2011-05-31T14:59:00.000-04:00

Outdoor fun only started with Memorial Day weekend.

Free Fishing Weekend, June 4-5, provides a chance for kids and adults to participate at recreation areas located across Indiana that are planning fun fishing derbies, casting clinics, fish-cleaning demonstrations and cooking classes.

A list of the many sites offering special events for kids for the weekend is at http://www.in.gov/dnr/fishwild/3598.htm.

Free Fishing Weekend also is a great chance for Hoosier adults who don't fish or haven't for a while to take a child fishing. That's because Indiana's adult residents do not need a license or a trout/salmon stamp to fish Indiana waters during Free Fishing Weekend. With children age 17 and younger not needing a fishing license at any time, it's a perfect match. All other fishing regulations are still in effect during Free Fishing Weekend.

Adults who decide they want to buy a license for the rest of the year can do so any time at http://www.in.gov/dnr/fishwild/5330.htm.

Individuals who need reasonable modifications for effective participation in Free Fishing Weekend events at DNR properties should contact the property at least 72 hours before the event or call the DNR ADA Coordinator at (317) 232-4145.

Want a better way to find the fish? Several new lake bathymetry (depth) maps have been added to DNR's website just in time for Free Fishing Weekend. This brings the number of such maps to 63 now available for free download in digital format.

The additions include two in Warrick County (Blue Grass and Otter), as well as Shipshewana and Nauvoo in LaGrange County, and Mud Lake in Noble County, and Indian Lake in DeKalb County.

Armed with these maps, Hoosier anglers of all experience levels can hit the water knowing the location of the deep holes and shallow areas fish love.

The complete list is available at Indiana Lake depth maps. http://www.in.gov/dnr/fishwild/5759.htm

IMPCL Summer Reading Program Starts Soon!

2011-05-31T13:20:00.000-04:00

The Indianapolis-Marion County Summer Reading program, 2011 Science Odessy, begins on June 6th and runs till August 1st. The reading program features movies, prizes and workshops throughout the summer. Check out the website for more information or stop by your local branch to register for the program.

Inlement Weather

2011-05-26T11:20:00.000-04:00

Some information from one of the licensing consultants to remind everyone of the Bureau of Child Care’s policies regarding loss of electricity and home and fence repair.

Public Water Source & Sewage

If a facility losses electricity, as long as their water and sewage are working properly, they can stay in the building until parents arrive to pick up children. Parents should be notified right away so that they can make a decision on whether to leave the children or come and get them. The facility cannot do food clean up without hot water and must use disposable dishes and utensils. If power is not back on by the next day, the facility cannot reopen.

Private Water Source & Sewage
If the facility is on a well and a public water source, the facility must contact parents within 2 hours to pick up their children. If power is not back on by the next day, the facility cannot reopen.

If you lose power overnight and power is not restored by morning, you cannot open.

If your home has structural damage, please contact your licensing consultant. If your home has structural damage, you cannot open until it is repaired and they may need to come out and approve it before it reopens. Structural damage would include a tree falling on the house.

Do not allow the children to play in a play yard if it contains hazards. If a tree falls across your fence, please remove the tree and repair the fence. Repair the fence safely and quickly. The excuse that you’re waiting for the insurance company to come out is not acceptable.

If you have any questions please contact your licensing consultant.

Garden on the Go

2011-05-25T13:53:00.000-04:00

We’re bringing fresh, affordable fruits and vegetables to neighborhoods in Marion County

Indiana University Health’s Garden on the Go is an effort to improve access to affordable fruits and vegetables in "food deserts" throughout Marion County. A "food desert" is defined as "an area that lacks access to affordable, healthy foods." Learn more about why fruits and vegetables are so important to your health.

Our goal is simple: To get more produce into the hands of those without access to convenient and affordable fruits and vegetables. Studies have shown that people with greater access to supermarkets or a greater abundance of healthy foods in neighborhood food stores, consume more fresh produce and other healthy items. The healthier eating habits people have now, the less likely chronic diseases will develop over time.

Garden on the Go is part of IU Health’s large-scale initiative to fight the obesity epidemic by improving access to healthy foods and safe places for physical activity in high-poverty neighborhoods. According to the Indiana State Department of Health, 29 percent of adolescents and 65 percent of adults in Indiana are obese or overweight.

How It Works

Garden on the Go operates Wednesday-Saturday, year-round, stopping at the same locations and times each week. Green B.E.A.N. Delivery has been contracted to manage the truck operations.

Produce comes from local and regional sources and features a variety of fruits and vegetables. Cash, credit cards and SNAP/EBT are accepted. Anyone is welcome to shop on the truck.

Garden on the Go Schedule

Schedule may vary due to holidays or severe weather. Please check this schedule regularly for any updates.

Garden on the Go will be at the following locations starting in May 2011.

Wednesdays
Address: Location Name: Time:
501 N. East St. #A John J. Barton Annex 10:30 am
901 Fort Wayne Ave. Lugar Tower Apartments 1:30 pm
825 Indiana Ave. Indiana Avenue Apartments 4:30 pm

Thursdays
Address: Location Name: Time:
2420 E. Riverside Dr. Riverside Aquatic Center(back lot) 10:30 am
3000 block of N. Concord Court N. Concord Court & N. Goodlet Ave. 1:30 pm
1802 W. Morris St. Across from Billy's Food Pantry 4:30 pm

Fridays
Address: Location Name: Time:
3091 Baltimore Ave. Blackburn Terrace 10:30 am

2300 block of N. Kenwood Ave W. 23rd St. & N Kenwood Ave. 1:30 pm

517 W. 30th St. Northside New Era Baptist Church 4:30 pm

Saturdays

Address: Location Name: Time:

1900 block of Woodlawn Ave Woodlawn Ave. & S. Randolph St. 10:30 am

300 block of N. Beville Ave. In front of Beville Park 1:30 pm

400 block of N. Oakland Ave E. Michigan & N. Oakland Ave. 4:30 pm

Entrenamiento's En Español

2011-05-24T16:37:00.002-04:00

Entrenamientos para convertirse en un cuidado infantil

Seguridad al Dormir- El 09 de Junio, del 2011 de las 5-8:30pm
Orientaiòn 1-El 20 de Augosto, del 2011 de las 10am-12pm
Orientaciòn 2- El 20 de Augosto, del 2011 de las 12-3pm

Para registar, por favor llame al Amy Torres (317) 636-5727 ext 237.

Inspecciòn de los asiento de seguridad para niños

2011-05-24T16:24:00.002-04:00

En el parqueo de el Zoologico de Indianapolis
El 06 de Junio del 2011 de las 5-7pm

Tanto como el 85% de los asientos de seguridad para niño son mal usados.

Permita que el tècnico certificado em la seguridad del niño pasajero, inspeccione el asiento de seguridad de su niño.

Asientos de seguridad para niños, seran solamente provehidos a los primeros que lleguen, de acuerdo a la necesidad del niño y criterio del tècnico.

Para recibir un asiento de seguridad, el representante del niño, el niño y vehiculo TIENEN que estar presente.

Para mas informacion llame: (317) 944-2977

One Ingredient Ice Cream

2011-05-19T14:27:00.000-04:00

Yes, that's right; you heard us. Creamy, soft-serve style ice cream with just one ingredient — and no ice cream maker needed! What is this one magic ingredient that can be whipped into perfectly rich and silky ice cream, with no additional dairy, sweeteners, or ingredients needed whatsoever?

If you guessed BANANA, congratulations! You're right!

What? You didn't know that bananas can make some of the best ice cream? Well, I didn't either until last week, when my sister called me up and mentioned that she's been freezing bananas and then pureeing them into ice cream.

"That's the sort of thing you discover," she sighed, "when all your friends are vegan, gluten-free, dairy-allergic, and you're on a sugar-free diet." I'd deal with a list of dietary restrictions twice as long, though, if it meant discovering more treats like this one.

It turns out that frozen bananas are good for more than just dipping in chocolate. If you freeze a banana until solid, then whiz it up in a blender or food processor, it gets creamy and a little gooey, just like good custard ice cream. I was surprised at this bit of kitchen wizardry; I assumed that a blended banana would be flaky or icy. But no — it makes creamy, rich ice cream.

Some bananas, depending on their ripeness, have a bit of that green aftertaste. My sister has been experimenting with adding in another ingredient or two, like a tablespoon of peanut butter and another of honey. Delicious!

Have you ever tried frozen-banana ice cream? Try it! It's an easy way to stay cool and use up over-ripe bananas at the same time.

Want more detailed instructions and step-by-step photos?
http://www.thekitchn.com/thekitchn/tips-techniques/stepbystep-instructions-for-oneingredient-ice-cream-097170

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Looking For Summer Camps

2011-05-19T14:21:00.002-04:00

Fun and Friends Happen Here!

Urban Mission YMCA Summer Day Camp "From Day One"
Please call Brandon Brown (317) 713-8572

Urban Mission YMCA Summer Day Camp "Leaders In Training"
Please call Natalie Brake (317) 713-8575

Urban Mission YMCA Summer Day Camp "Turning Points"
Please call Brandon Brown (317) 713-8572

Urban Mission YMCA and Little Bethel Community Center Collaborative Summer Day Camp
Please call Natalie Brake (317) 713-8575

Please know Child Care Answers does not Recommend or Endorse any of these camps.

Free Early Childhood Education Webinars

2011-05-18T08:06:00.000-04:00

The following are FREE webinars on the following site: http://www.ecewebinars.org/

May 18: Dr. Barbara Sorrels
ECE Leaders: Connect, Inspire & Empower Teachers Through Personal “Sticky Notes Storytelling”

NEW! June 1: Warren Buckleitner
ECE Tech: Beyond Debate-How To Evaluate Children’s Interactive Technology Tools and Media
JUNE 29: Dr. Ingrid Crowther
Creating Effective Learning Spaces for Early Childhood Cognitive Development

NEW! July 20: Barbara Chester and Gail Connelly
Seamless Preschool to Elementary Transitions: The Role of Elementary Principals in Creating Prek through Grade 3 Alignment

July 27: Elizabeth Engelhardt
Firefighter or ECE Administrator? Putting Out Management “Fires” in Preschool Settings

NEW! August 3: Dr. Lynee Kenney
Define Your ECE Program’s Culture: Starting the School Year Right

NEW! August 21: Tom Copeland
ECE Program Contracts & Policies 101: How to Establish and Maintain Effective Business Relationships with Parents

NEW! September 28: Bethe Almeras
Creating a Nature-Based Culture in Your Program
NEW SESSIONS WILL BE ADDED SOON! Bookmark ECEWebinars.org to stay up to date!

TWO ITSI SUMMER 2011 ONLINE COURSE OFFERINGS at INDIANA UNIVERSITY

2011-05-18T08:02:00.000-04:00

The first 15 students who register for either ITSI class get free course books!!

E505/F401: Leadership & Administration of Early Childhood Programs (3 credits) Second Summer Session June 16 – August 12, 2011 Taught by Dr. Peggy Apple

Course Description
What does it take to be an effective leader? What is involved in leadership, management, and supervision? Who is a teacher-leader? How do leaders and administrators contribute to quality environments and programs for infants, toddlers, and young children? Enroll in this online course for an exploration of effective relationship-based leadership strategies, intentional management techniques, quality standards, ethical frameworks, and continuous quality improvement paradigms as they relate to early childhood programs that serve infants and toddlers. This course will examine the management, supervision, and leadership of early childhood programs that serve children from infancy through age eight within the framework of planning, implementing, and evaluating programs of various sponsorship and purpose. Topics will include program philosophy, goals, curriculum, leading and managing staff, differentiated supervision, ethics, professional development, physical facilities, finance and budget, family and community partnerships, government regulations, and accreditation systems, in addition to other relevant leadership and administrative topics. The culminating project is individualized individual learning goals set by the participant as they relate to course objectives.

E508/F401: Infant and Toddler Care and Education Environments (3 credits) Intensive Summer Session July 5 – August 5, 2011 Taught by Dr. Mary McMullen

Course Description
Join us for an exploration of optimal care and education environments for infants and toddlers.

Current infant and toddler caregivers, early interventionists, early childhood administrators, trainers, consultants, as well as those interested in learning more about the complexities of infant and toddler care and education environments are encouraged to enroll. This course is designed for practitioners and students who are interested in the study of infant and toddler care and education. The two major themes of this course are 1) The Physical Aspects of Environments for Infants and Toddlers and 2) The Human Relationship Elements of the Environment. Elements necessary for the promotion of overall healthy growth, learning and well-being in infants and toddlers will be examined in an online format through lecture, readings, discussion, and individual projects. Analysis of relevant readings, resources, and research will help participants improve their current practices and/or engage in further professional development and learning about infants and toddlers.

HOW DO I REGISTER FOR AN ITSI COURSE?

For non-currently enrolled students who already have an undergraduate degree who would like to register for this course at the graduate level, register for E505 using the following link:

http://iuconnected.iu.edu/

For all others including undergraduate students currently enrolled at IU, undergraduate level students not currently enrolled at IU, and graduate level students who are currently enrolled IU students and want to sign up: please contact Sara Gibson at slavende@indiana.edu. She will help you enro

"Explore Indy" With the Freewheeling' Bike Club

2011-05-17T09:36:00.000-04:00

Take a ride with neighbors of all ages to interesting places around Indy. Freewheelin' Bikes will show you fun places to go and great ways to get there! The distances start short and grow week by week to increase fitness. Be amazed at how far you can ride by the end of the summer! Our rides are designed with kids age 10-15 and less fit or experienced adult riders in mind. Youngsters 8 and up may ride with us if accompanied by an adult. This is a great family bonding opportunity! PLEASE SIGN UP IN ADVANCE and plan to ride with us regularly. Registration is $15/person (max $45/family). You may also rent a suitable, working bike from them for the entire ride season for $25/person. For information to register or questions contact (317) 429-7973 or email freewheelinbikes@gmail.com .

Ride Schedule:

May 21: Children's Museum
May 28: Indianapolis Museum of Art
June 4: Mayor's Bike Ride
June 11: TBA
June 18: See what people all over town are doing to eat healthy- community gardening!
June 25: Broad Ripple- Farmer's Market and Broad Ripple Park
July 2: Downtown
July 9: Downtown
July 16: White River State Park
July 23: Indy Crit: Ride to the race
July 30: Fountain Square/Pleasant Run
August 6: Ride to Ft. Benjamin Harrison State Park for a picnic
August 13: Mass Ave. Criterium - enjoy the race.
August 20: The End of the Line - Carmel! Bub's Burgers & Ice Cream

Edna Martin Christian Center Free Clothing Give A WAY

2011-05-17T09:23:00.000-04:00

Edna Martin Christian Center will be hosting a Clothing Give A Way on Saturday, June 18th from 9am-11am at 1970 Caroline Ave, Indianapolis, IN 46218. They will be offering free new and gently used clothing for men, women and children. If you are interested in attending please contact Jennifer at (317) 637-3776.

4-H Youth Development in Marion County

2011-05-17T09:18:00.000-04:00

4-H Cloverbud Space Workshop

Saturday, June 4, 2011

10:00 a.m. to 11:30 a.m.

Purdue Extension Marion County Office

6640 Intech Blvd., Suite 120

Building 10, Intech Park

Indianapolis, IN 46278-2012

Take exit 22 (I-465 & 71st Street),head west

You will learn about the technology used for space travel, how space technology helps us every day and how you can learn more about space with fun, interactive activities and games.

The workshop is open to all Marion county families with children K-2nd grade.

For Information contact Phyliss Harris at pgharris@purdue.edu , (317)275-9261

INDIANA YOUTH DEVELOPMENT CREDENTIAL: Free Webinars

2011-05-16T14:19:00.001-04:00

Learn the essentials of youth work and sharpen your existing skills through a series of free Webinars based on the national youth worker core competencies.

Indiana YouthPRO is offering the Webinars on Thursdays from 4p - 5p (EDT), starting Thursday, May 19. The topics include:
May 19: Professionalism
May 26: Child and Youth Development
June 2: Program Content and Curriculum
June 9: Program Environment
June 16: Families and Communities
June 23: Indiana Afterschool Standards
June 30: Indiana Youth Development Credential

The Webinars also will be archived on the Indiana YouthPRO Web site for later viewing.
Pre-Registration is required. To register click here.

Early Childhood Investigations- FREE Webinars!!!

2011-05-14T11:01:00.001-04:00

Thank you to Robert-Leslie Publishingfor sponsoring Early Childhood Investigations. If it were not for this generous sponsorship, these free webinars would be impossible. NEW SESSIONS WILL BE ADDED SOON! Bookmark ECEWebinars.org to stay up to date!

May 18: Dr. Barbara SorrelsECE Leaders: Connect, Inspire & Empower Teachers Through Personal “Sticky Notes Storytelling”

NEW! June 1: Warren BuckleitnerECE Tech: Beyond Debate-How To Evaluate Children’s Interactive Technology Tools and Media

JUNE 29: Dr. Ingrid CrowtherCreating Effective Learning Spaces for Early Childhood Cognitive Development

NEW! July 20: Barbara Chester and Gail ConnellySeamless Preschool to Elementary Transitions: The Role of Elementary Principals in Creating Prek through Grade 3 Alignment

July 27: Elizabeth EngelhardtFirefighter or ECE Administrator? Putting Out Management “Fires” in Preschool Settings

NEW! July 27: Tom CopelandDefine Your ECE Program’s Culture: Starting the School Year Right

NEW! September 28: Bethe AlmerasCreating a Nature-Based Culture in Your Program

Online Professional Development

2011-05-05T15:30:00.002-04:00

ChildCare Education Institute Offers Online Professional Development at No Cost on May 6, in Recognition of "Provider Appreciation Day"

ChildCare Education Institute (CCEI), a nationally accredited, IACET CEU granting, distance training institution dedicated exclusively to the child care industry, offers students access to the CCEI Professional Development Library to complete up to six courses at no cost on Friday, May 6, in honor of Provider Appreciation Day.

Provider Appreciation Day was first introduced in New Jersey in 1996 and is celebrated to raise awareness of the importance of early child care providers and teachers. On May 6, caregivers can log into CCEI's learning management system and choose and complete up to six courses from over 100 IACET CEU approved online courses, in English or Spanish.

"Ongoing professional development is a large part of maintaining an educated child care workforce and online training is one way to meet this goal. We encourage all those involved with the care of children to try a course. Access to the professional development library for Provider Appreciation Day is our way of giving thanks to those who provide such a positive impact on the care and development of our children," said Maria C. Taylor, President and CEO of CCEI.

To register for this promotion as a new user, click on Take a Trial Course and Earn CEU Credit! at
http://www.cceionline.edu/ and enter promo code PROVIDE11, when prompted. Existing students can enter this promotion code when they log in to their account and click on Promotion Registration. No-cost access is for the day of the promotion only.

About CCEI
ChildCare Education Institute is an online child care training institution dedicated to providing the child care industry with professional development programs and courses to meet their education requirements. Over 100 professional development training courses are available in English and Spanish to meet annual licensing requirements, as well as online certificate programs of study, such as the Online Child Development Associate (CDA), Online Director's Certificate, and many other certificates. CCEI is accredited by the DETC Accrediting Commission and is approved by the International Association for Continuing Education and Training to award IACET Continuing Education Units (CEUs). CCEI is authorized under the Nonpublic Postsecondary Educational Institutions Act of 1990, license number 837.

For more information, visit www.cceionline.edu or call 1.800.499.9907.

CLASES BASICAS DE COMPUTACIÓN en español

2011-05-04T12:59:00.002-04:00

CLASES BASICAS DE COMPUTACIÓN en español

Biblioteca Central

(40 E. St. Clair Street)

Laboratorio de Computación en la Biblioteca Central – Primer Piso

Mayo 2011

Introducción a los Computadores

Miércoles, 11 de mayo de 6:00 p.m. a 8:00 p.m.

En este curso usted se familiarizará con las partes básicas del computador, aprenderá a

utilizar el teclado y el ratón. Conozca los programas que vienen incluidos y aprenda a

personalizar su computador. Para registrarse, llame al 275-4099.

Navegando en Internet

Miércoles, 18 de mayo de 6:00 p.m. a 8:00 p.m.

Obtenga acceso a las noticias y a la información necesaria mediante el uso del internet,

aprenda las funciones, los sitios de web más conocidos. Aprenda a utilizar los mapas en

internet para llegar a diferentes lugares. Para registrarse, llame al 275-4099.

Creando una cuenta de Correo Electrónico

Miércoles, 25 de mayo de 6:00 p.m. a 8:00 p.m.

Aprenda a crear su cuenta de correo electrónico, y como enviar, recibir y almacenar sus

mensajes y las direcciones de las personas que le envían un correo electrónico, ya sea para

comunicarse con su familia y amigos o para solicitar un trabajo. Para registrarse, llame al

275-4099.

Cupo limitado.

Clases únicamente para adultos.

Las clases son GRATIS y están abiertas al público.

The plight of stepmoms on Mother's Day

2011-05-04T12:28:00.002-04:00

The plight of stepmoms on Mother's Day By Rachelle Katz, CNN
May 4, 2011 9:11 a.m. EDT
"No matter how hard I tried to get close to [my stepdaughter], I felt like a distant relative," author says.STORY HIGHLIGHTS

Mother's Day can be a struggle for stepmothers and their stepchildren

Author: "No matter how hard I tried to get close to her, I felt like a distant relative"

Only 20% of stepchildren feel close to their stepmothers

Author started stepsforstepmothers.com to help other stepmothers talk out their issues

RELATED TOPICS
Mother's Day
Blended Families
Women's Issues

Rachelle Katz. is a licensed marriage and family therapist with a private practice in New York City. She also is the author of "The Happy Stepmother: Stay Sane, Empower Yourself, Thrive in Your New Family."

(CNN) -- Mother's Day is a sad occasion for many, but not all of the 15 million U.S. stepmothers who have stepchildren under the age of 18.

As it approaches, I am reminded how disappointed and hurt I used to be when my stepdaughter didn't acknowledge me on this day. From the time I married my husband when my stepdaughter was only 4 years old, I always felt she viewed me as his wife rather than as a stepmother.

This distinction may be acceptable to women who marry men with older children, but it bothered me because for years I spent every other weekend playing with her, cooking for her, and doing every other activity of a maternal caregiver. I really tried to develop a close relationship with but never felt I succeeded.

Being ignored is minor compared to the hostility and emotional abuse many other stepmothers experience, but my sense of failure grew each time I tried to grow closer to my stepdaughter and was rebuffed.

My husband inadvertently compounded my discomfort each Mother's Day by asking me what kind of gift I wanted.

His gesture of kindness felt like he was offering me a present for failing a class, which increased my feelings of shame rather than joy. Also, I hate pretense, and I felt that he was pressuring me to accept his view of our happy family unit.

He was unwilling to acknowledge my perception that my relationship with my stepdaughter was friendly yet superficial, and just not as intimate as I expected it to be given the time we spent together. I felt he valued his feelings more than mine, and I became angry that my feelings weren't given equal standing to his.

Being wished a Happy Mother's Day by my parents and friends also felt bad. How could I sincerely accept their considerate remarks when my stepdaughter didn't recognize or appreciate my efforts in this capacity? I felt fraudulent as a stepmother.

Thankfully, my feelings have changed and, now I am in a better place where I accept and understand why my stepdaughter will not reach out to me on Mother's Day. I just wish other stepmothers wouldn't have to go through similar or far worse emotional distress.

If stepmothers weren't so unhappy, the divorce rate for second marriages, as high as 60% to 75%, might be reduced. Let me share my journey with you.

When I first became a stepmother, I was surprised to find it to be so difficult because my stepdaughter has always been well-behaved, smart and respectful. No matter how hard I tried to get close to her, I felt like a distant relative.

I wondered if my experience was unique or similar to other stepmothers so I started a website (stepsforstepmothers.com) which featured an online chat room and a questionnaire for stepmothers to fill out.

Almost instantaneously, a vibrant community of stepmothers formed that gave each other encouragement and advice during difficult times. In less than two years from the inception of the website, more than 3,000 women answered my questionnaire sharing the challenges they faced.

At the same time, I also began a monthly stepmother support group comprised of a handful of women who could fit into my small office.

From these three venues, I gained a lot of information about the specific problems stepmothers encounter. More important, I received the necessary support from women sharing similar experiences. This helped me overcome my feelings of inadequacy and isolation.

Being understood by others is so important. Without a doubt, knowing that I wasn't alone, that there were other stepmothers struggling to find their rightful place in their new families just like me, was the best medicine to heal my pain.

While these women couldn't (and shouldn't) have solved my specific problems, they validated my feelings. While my family and friends cared that I was unhappy, they didn't truly understand what was bothering me.

These other stepmothers intuitively knew how I felt, and this made me feel much better even though my situation did not actually change.

These women also helped me understand that my desire to be acknowledged by my stepdaughter on Mother's Day was not unreasonable, but it might be too much for her to give me. They helped me understand the dilemma that many stepchildren face on Mother's Day.

Their loyalties may lie with their mother, and they believe she will be offended if they acknowledge their stepmother. I respect my stepdaughter's love for her mother, and never want her to feel any loyalty binds.

So, I worked on developing a thicker skin to shield myself from being hurt.

After doing some research, I also learned that only 20% of stepchildren feel close to their stepmothers. As much as I want a close, loving relationship with my stepdaughter or anyone else for that matter, I realized I can't force anyone to love or even like me.

My stepdaughter is entitled to select the people she wants in her intimate circle of family and friends. What I can do is appreciate those people in my life who want to be close to me and nurture these relationships.

By shifting my focus to the positives rather than the negatives in my life, I am now more content.

While my husband used to encourage my stepdaughter to wish me a Happy Mother's Day, she is an adult, and he can't control her actions. Both he and I worked hard to accept the fact that most stepfamilies are not perfect, and ours may never be.

"It is what it is," and accepting this reality relieved a lot of wear and tear on my brain as well as his. I used to believe that I must always persevere until my goals were accomplished even if they were insurmountable.

What a relief to know that I can be happy even if every aspect of my life isn't perfect.

This year I am looking forward to celebrating Mother's Day with my mother and will try to make it as special for her as possible. I have learned that when I focus my energy on her, I feel good.

This works for a lot of other stepmothers who choose to spend the holiday with their mothers or with women for whom they deeply care. Many also treat themselves to a massage, lunch with friends or flowers on this day.

By choosing to do positive activities on Mother's Day, we take responsibility for our happiness.

I hope my experiences can help other stepmothers have a more enjoyable Mother's Day.